Ask Anything on Sidechat | My best friend knows I’m sober 48 days. I’ve expressed my substance abuse to her for a long time, but kept drinking. We had a lot of fun together, but I was struggling I’m sober now and the other day she offered me the rest of her beer. Is this sabotage?

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My best friend knows I’m sober 48 days. I’ve expressed my substance abuse to her for a long time, but kept drinking. We had a lot of fun together, but I was struggling I’m sober now and the other day she offered me the rest of her beer. Is this sabotage?

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Anonymous 1d

Not necessarily, but you can’t rule it out. You know her personality better than me. Was it thoughtless? Purposeful? Did she like you better when you were drinking? Could she have a grudge against you for something? “Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity”

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Anonymous 1d

Did you remind her that you’re sober?? And what was her reaction when you did?

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Anonymous

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She does like me better when I’m drinking./:

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Anonymous

OP 1d

That is, perchance, not a good sign :// Have you confronted her about it?

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