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If there’s a cute guy at my internship how do I bag him 😭we did a group thing together and we’re lowkey flirting I felt like, I sometimes catch him looking at me and I do the same-
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Anonymous 8w

Guys are dumb when it comes to picking up cues. You will have to be direct if you really want to bag him.

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Anonymous 8w

Literally just ask him. Call him cute and compliment him on the way he acts. If he doesn’t engage he’s not worth (man’s opinion)

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Anonymous 8w

just ask for his number directly. if he's at all interested he'll say yes in a heartbeat

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Anonymous 8w

Flirt and fuck me eyes

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Anonymous 8w

Well first of all you need to be absolutely certain he doesn’t already have a gf

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Anonymous 8w

fuck if this were to happen to me, i’d most likely talk to u back

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Anonymous 8w

I believe he has a girlfriend 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I never have really talked to him at work😭but I want to I just don’t know how to

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

😂shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

I’m pretty certain he doesn’t have a gf, but I will double check before I do anything. I refuse to be a home-wrecker✋🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

If he does he can just dump her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

Can confirm. Many of us are too clueless and need to be told up front about it 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Talk to him outside of work

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

How do I even do that without being awkward😭do I try to find his insta or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Ask him at work but keep it professional as this is work then flirt with him after establishing a rapport outside of work

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

I think maybe I need to do baby steps first and just start saying hi to him when I see him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

That’s a good start maybe preteen steps but that’s up to you to judge

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

😂yeah, I just don’t know how to make it not weird considering I’ve never really talked to him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

🫂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

So he’s been cheating?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

He never mentioned the word gf just kept mentioning some girls name 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Oh shit I said that, anyways just find out more. I think I thought I was in a different post for that one lmaoo. If he has a girl id stop approaching romantically but you could try being friends and seeing if they break up but that’s the long game ion if you’re into that personally its not for me. I’d not proceed as before ig maybe increase the size of the steps.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 8w

Yeah, I think I should just try to get to know him more 😭

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