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If you feel neglected in a relationship how do you know if it’s valid or if your selfish
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Anonymous 2w

idk if there’s necessarily like a rule to determine that that applies to every relationship like i think details are necessary to answer that, i will say overall tho that (hot take) it doesn’t really matter. (like on a broad scale) i don’t think the same “fairness” applies to relationships the way it does everything else in this way

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Anonymous 2w

listen to ur gut

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Anonymous 2w

Dih me downnn

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

if you personally need more attention than you’re getting from this person in your relationships, that’d even be a valid reason to end it. like overall if you think that what this relationship is adding to your life doesn’t match with what you are putting into it/what it is taking away or stressors that it’s giving, i don’t think you have a responsibility to stay in it even if the reasons aren’t technically “valid” or what you think you need for it to be worth it is different from others

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

not saying to end the relationship or anything at all like idk the situation i’m just saying it’s all a matter of personal preference & what u consider to be valid/what u prioritize/value in a relationship. it’s something that has natural consequences yk like no one owes u the amount of attention u feel like u need in a relationship but u also don’t owe them staying. at the same time u can also say that different treatment is a requirement for you in a relationship & they aren’t required to stay

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