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I need advise on a guy, we had a really good talk and he keeps liking/reacting on things i post. One day he wasn’t putting in the effort into the conversation (not necessarily dry just not interesting) so I left him on read. I like him what should I do?
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Anonymous 38w

Just talk to him! Text him and let that be that.

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Anonymous 38w

see if he reaches out. if he cares, he will

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Anonymous 38w

Ask straight save time of both sides

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Anonymous 38w

What's wrong with you women? Like I don't get it. Is your self esteem in the toilet?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 38w

How do you know it isn’t another guy lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 38w

IDGAFF

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Anonymous 38w

He was taking hours to answer when I know he wasn’t busy. His answers weren’t showing interest so I left him on read to see if he’d chase (he didn’t). I’m scared if I text him he’ll find me annoying, and if I don’t he’ll think I’m not interested

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 38w

Im a girl. No my self esteem is fine. I don’t like playing games so I’ve been honest with him. I felt a lack of energy in the conversation and I deserve more. What i am asking is this normal enough for me to keep texting him? Or is this a sign ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 38w

if he thinks you're not interested after you were the one doing all the work in the conversation then you dodged a bullet because he's oblivious anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 38w

But you did play games leaving him on read though like WTFF?!?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 38w

I wouldn’t consider it a game since I was carrying the conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 38w

You did how you left the sitch. Then wanting to come back to it after being childish about it the first time

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Anonymous 38w

You know he wasn't busy? That sounded psycho

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Anonymous 38w

How you gonna know someone's not busy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 38w

His online status showed connected on Instagram and fb

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