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I need advise on a guy, we had a really good talk and he keeps liking/reacting on things i post. One day he wasn’t putting in the effort into the conversation (not necessarily dry just not interesting) so I left him on read. I like him what should I do?
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Anonymous 25w

I want to suggest you reach out since you left him on read. He might start thinking many things that aren’t true about your connection. Just show him you’re interested, you lose mothing

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Anonymous 25w

Just talk to him! Text him and let that be that.

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Anonymous 25w

see if he reaches out. if he cares, he will

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Anonymous 25w

Ask straight save time of both sides

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Anonymous 25w

What's wrong with you women? Like I don't get it. Is your self esteem in the toilet?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

How do you know it isn’t another guy lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 25w

IDGAFF

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 25w

He was taking hours to answer when I know he wasn’t busy. His answers weren’t showing interest so I left him on read to see if he’d chase (he didn’t). I’m scared if I text him he’ll find me annoying, and if I don’t he’ll think I’m not interested

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

Im a girl. No my self esteem is fine. I don’t like playing games so I’ve been honest with him. I felt a lack of energy in the conversation and I deserve more. What i am asking is this normal enough for me to keep texting him? Or is this a sign ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 25w

if he thinks you're not interested after you were the one doing all the work in the conversation then you dodged a bullet because he's oblivious anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 25w

But you did play games leaving him on read though like WTFF?!?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

I wouldn’t consider it a game since I was carrying the conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 25w

You did how you left the sitch. Then wanting to come back to it after being childish about it the first time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 25w

Leaving him on read in my opinion just reinforces that his convo skills are boring. Engage him to make him want to talk more openly. He probably doesn’t know how to talk to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 25w

You know he wasn't busy? That sounded psycho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 25w

Did you know he wasn’t busy because of the time you texted?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 25w

How you gonna know someone's not busy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

His online status showed connected on Instagram and fb

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