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Q. for the girls. Coming from a guy who’s wanting to start dating again, when/where would be the best time/place to approach, w/o being labeled as a creep or worse? In all seriousness, just very curious. I’m not using apps ATM. want to meet organically
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Anonymous 1w

when i met my bf i just asked him to help me with this chem paper and we hit it off from there. honestly just make the first move even if it’s just a kind gesture and take it from there :) hope this helps!

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Anonymous 1w

Any type of farmers market, street fair, concert. If you approach a girl who is with her friends without being too aggressive that’s good too. Lets her lead if she’s comfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Fam I can barely approach one girl by herself… let alone a whole pack of them… tbh seems kinda scary and I don’t wanna set myself up like that. Hmm, but then again, if her friends think I’m cute too then… you may be on to something here. But I just gotta build up my confidence more to get to that point.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

If you just act like yourself, and keep things chill, you either hit your target or make a few friends. It only goes weird if you make it weird. So just be chill!

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