I think it’s harder for more people than you think. There are people who find people fast, but often it takes time

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Maybe you should kill the part of you that feels awkward in situations where you don't know what to say. The world goes round even when your not apart of it that's just physics. How are you gonna cringe at a part of you that's just due to simple misunderstandings?

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I mean no disrespect, but if you can’t find a way to push past the anxiety and stress, so you can do the things you need to do to meet people, then you’re going to struggle with it until you can. I’ve also struggled with social anxiety my whole life, but I’ve learned that you can’t expect people to just fall into your life. It’s up to you to make it happen. I know it’s easier said than done, but it’s essential to do.

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The best advice for dealing with the anxiety of meeting new people is to look up some conversation starters or read some books about communication. Anytime you run into someone willing to speak with you then you’ve run into an opportunity to grow. We all trip over our words and stutter. Don’t let that beat you down.

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just talk to anyone and don't worry about what it leads to. if its meant to be you'll make time for each other and reach out often

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Don’t go looking for your person. Coming from someone who thought they found their person fast. I quickly realized it’s not all peaches and rainbows and these dudes are rlly not worth the stress while in college. Unfortunately I tried to settle down quick and am stuck in a 14mo lease. Don’t be like me. I hate it here😹😹💔😹😹😹😹💔😹😹

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Finding someone to hang with cause it’s convenient and finding YOUR PEOPLE aren’t the same. There’s not a right or wrong way and of them are gonna have drama and fall outs within weeks lol.

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give yourself grace! it takes time. I’d recommend joining an org

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