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When we r doing sexxx, he blindfolded me… I was okay w that but after that I realized he recorded all the time without asking:(( I talked w him but he said he didn’t do it, u don’t trust me, so what should I do:((
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Anonymous 2w

break up with him immediately and never see him again, consider filing a police report

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Anonymous 2w

That’s crazy and crime multiple crimes

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Anonymous 2w

get into that device it was recorded on, delete that shit, and delete that man from your life

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Anonymous 1w

Police report, thats illegal.

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Anonymous 2w

So you DK what you should do asking the internet?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

the things is I don’t have any proof that he did it, so I still don’t know:(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

What was it that made you realize he recorded you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

He putted it smartphone stand, usually he didn’t do it. I asked him but he said “I putted there cuz it wouldn’t fall”, I felt like he is lying…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I think this is still in a stage where communication can potentially solve this. Ask him if he’ll show you the camera roll from that day if you really need proof. If you’re right and he’s lying, do what #1 said

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yea, he showed me his camera roll n there have nothing . But I think he deleted it n that’s still in his recently deleted folder. Cuz he was acting so weird

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Check both folders. If he doesn’t just let the police investigate - they can get a court orderte to search his shit with that initial suspicion. Having such a video can be really harmful in the long run. Also, revenge porn is a crime that can land him 2 years in jail.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Thank u, I’ll try! It happened yesterday but I’m so afraid to meet him now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I understand that I can be scary but keep in mind that: 1) you‘re in the right, 2) there are enforcement methods that are waiting to protect you. I would never mind showing my camera roll if someone suspected that of me. If he blocks, that mean that you should be suspicious

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Okay, thank u so much!! I’ll try to talk to him

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Yea:( I guess so

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Yea..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You know that's crazy right. Why wouldn't you know what to do? This muthaphucka has possibly done something to you without your knowledge and without your permission. And you're going to just let that ride? Are you that seriously that scared to be alone?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I'm so not understanding the disconnect of why aren't you standing up for yourself?

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