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Do women only want Nonchalant guys? I’m a yearner, flowers on the first date, text back quickly because I care, got my shit together but it seems the only way to get women to notice you these days is by pretending you just don’t care about them. I’m lost.
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Anonymous 11w

“do women only like guys who…” “do guys like it when women…” THE SEXES ARE NOT A MONOLITH!! you could argue that dating culture affects people’s expectations of how relationships should be, but it doesn’t dictate them! you will find women who like it and women who don’t! It’s hard to judge someones character within your first few meetings. Sounds generic, but it’s best to be yourself and act how you would naturally (with some caveats ofc, like don’t fart around her on the first date)

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Anonymous 11w

Bro you on yikyak complaining women don’t like you, you clearly don’t got your shit together as well as you think

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Anonymous 10w

Maybe thats just how it tends to be where you are because personally I hate guys that play hard to get/act nonchalant its not attractive. I like keeping it real and pursuing you if im interested and id want someone to do the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

I’d hardly call that complaining, I mean maybe I would if I was braindead but that’s not a problem i suffer from thankfully😂

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