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is anyone else just mad depressed and don’t know how to cope well
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Anonymous 10w

bro dm me cause i’m feeling the same way and wanna talk to someone who understands 💔

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Anonymous 10w

Most depressed ive ever been🫩

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Anonymous 10w

u ain have to delete the convo gng that was valid convos 🥀

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Anonymous 10w

I’d be down to talk to you if you need anything

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Anonymous 10w

I do think depending where you are rn it gets dark early and cold and could be seasonal depression. Not saying it is or dismissing your feelings but could be something to think about

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Anonymous 9w

same i’m literally failing everythinf

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Anonymous 10w

so it wasn't just me at least

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Anonymous 10w

Yup Life is moving too fast I feel frozen

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Anonymous 10w

Yessir

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Anonymous 10w

I was extremely depressed, popping pills and drinking. I decided I needed to find something I was passionate about, which is easier said than done. For me, the gym was a blessing. It gave me self motivation and discipline. I haven't touched anything since, and feel happier. I think discipline is great because it mentally prepares you for what's to come in life. Not everyone will find a passion and be happier, but it's worth a try. Talk to me if you need anything.

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Anonymous 10w

Literally just emailed my therapist last night that I want to start therapy again. It’s been almost a year but I need the help again so I’m gonna take it.

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Anonymous 10w

I’ve dealt with the really bad parts of depression where I almost lost my life. Thankfully I’m still here though. In order to dig yourself out of that hole you have to put in work. It’s going to suck but you just gotta push through it and don’t be afraid to call out for help. 988 is a good number to call if you need someone to talk to and they even have access to information to find you the best help. Get involved with volunteering and you’ll get connected to some great people.

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Anonymous 10w

Drugs and alcohol are not the answer for coping skills. What I do when I’m feeling down is I go into my garage and do woodworking projects or finish fixing things that I had planned to. I like to even work on my car when I can too. I play tons of video games as well but usually I’m playing things like farming simulator or factorio.

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Anonymous 10w

yup, even therapy doesn’t help

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Anonymous 10w

how do i know if im depressed

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Anonymous 10w

yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

me too like it’s the one thing i can’t control

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Nah it’s L propaganda. You can get high once a day, period. Everything else is a waste and slowing your life

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

If you want to smoke weed cool but don’t try to force other people to, tf is your issue

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

yeah i don’t smoke lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Cause I know the meta brodigy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

i mean bro, im speakin from experience, it jus is not a valid way of coping

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Doesn’t sound like it if you’re this much of a miserable weirdo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

now i’m not judging just trying to find a healthier way to cope

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Me too I just drown in my thoughts

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

it sucks doesn’t it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Not really if you can moderate effectively. Like I get high occasionally and at most once a day in my peak, and yet I did that after going through my day and accomplishing whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

i don’t wanna get high tho. ive never f with weed and i lowkey have other issues so i dont wanna create more

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Bro fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10w

Everyone is different, so maybe it's not the best advice. However I do think finding something that truly makes you happy will help you out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Smoking weed makes you dumb by reducing brain matter it’s a shit drug

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 10w

Have you tried a different therapist?

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 10w

nope we really going through it 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

yep, 3

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 9w

God same

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