
Prepared to get the downvotes here. The ick factor plays a big role in this outcome. Like one wrong move and you are essentially trash. As a guy it makes shooting a shot feel like walking on eggshells. In your example y’all were cleverly dancing around it but once it was named it became an example of a gross man.
Or maybe we do want that too but we need time to build that connection and you just take a hacksaw to it. Literally yesterday I had two guys message me. I said yes to both until they started talking about their dick ( within 30 mins) or how id feel about their head between my legs(within 2 hours) like. Uhhh gross. 👻 to both
Exactly. IMO, instant gratification as well as the saturation of the idea of love being pushed everywhere, most people expect to find it pulling shit like that. “It’s just who I am and if they don’t like that then they’re not the one-“ or some combination of those words, completely disregarding the fact that we’re not the same people we are tomorrow, so be better today and you may find that person, or don’t I’m not a cop