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what was the “thing” that ended your last relationship?
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Anonymous 71w

Realized that she’s a sociopath who had been abusing me for years lol

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Anonymous 71w

we argued over the littlest things for the last several weeks of our relationship.

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Anonymous 71w

control. i wasn’t able to hangout with friends or even family. it wasn’t a cute kind of clingy, it was a creepy obsession type clingy. there’s a fine line between the two but there is still a line

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Anonymous 71w

I realized stuff about me and needed to go off on my journey to figure out stuff if that makes sense

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Anonymous 71w

The fact I can’t drive still — I have diagnosed crippling anxiety and ptsd from my cousin and a close friend dying in a car crash 💀💀💀

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Anonymous 71w

he said he needed to work on his mental health and learn how to be okay alone, i guess he hated himself more than he loved me

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Anonymous 71w

He had anger issues he would belittle me and long distance

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Anonymous 71w

Alcohol

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Anonymous 71w

He was lowkey assaulting me. Like he would push me to do stuff with him even after I said no. I tried to tell him about it and he would tell me he would change but he never did. I broke up with him and now he claims he’s changed and found God.

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Anonymous 71w

technically we weren’t dating but an sti got involved and falsely accusing one another

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Anonymous 71w

Financially insecure for a long time and no progress made after 3 years

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Anonymous 71w

Complete failure of communication

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Anonymous 71w

All she said is that she isn’t happy anymore. Still to this day I still don’t know what exactly causes things to end

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Anonymous 71w

got cheated on

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Anonymous 71w

They were fucking their best friend while wearing my clothes I had gifted them

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Anonymous 71w

Ex wanted to “work on themself” and “be selfish” without relationship consequences

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 71w

proud of you for getting out of that situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 71w

those are extremely valid reasons, and i’m glad you’re out of that situation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 71w

Thanks <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 71w

wait this is why he left me? can i DM you about this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 71w

Sure

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 71w

i hope your journey of self discovery turned out to be enlightening :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 71w

ah, yeah that would do it. i’m sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 71w

It truly was and now I am 2.5 years into a healthy amazing relationship with a with a man I plan on marrying

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 71w

i’m sorry that’s a big limiting thing :/ sending u good vibes and unscaryness should you ever CHOOSE to pursue that

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 71w

some people really are blind to the consequences of their actions, i’m sorry you went through all that but am glad you’re out from under the abusive cloud.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 71w

that’s a harsh one to read, i’m sorry. but it doesn’t sound like his lack of feelings towards you were a key factor in his decision at all, just his feelings toward himself

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 71w

that still sounds like a rough emotional disturbance, and definitely a breaking of trust :( i’m sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 71w

that’s extremely difficult to cope with at this age, especially if you(or they) are making your(or their) own plans. maybe it’s for the best to focus on what each person desires most

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 71w

oh yeah, that’s real and definitely when you know it’s hit the end. i’m sorry.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 71w

having little discourse is insanely difficult to put up with, and impossible to maintain so i don’t blame you. better partners are out there!

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 71w

i’m sorry, being left on a cliffhanger is one of the worst, but it could’ve been from an overwhelming amount of emotions they had and didn’t know how to properly express at the time. take it as a sign to grow yourself <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 71w

ew ew ew no, i got the ick just from reading that. you’re smart for chosing to value and treasure your own space and time over being forced to adapt to someone else’s. proud of u pooks

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 71w

that’s so wonderful to hear! i wish you two nothing but the best in the future :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 71w

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 71w

It’s been 4 years now and I have someone better who treats me right. At least my new girlfriend has a backbone unlike my ex who always listened to her friend that not even her family was happy with

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 71w

Same here, she would get mad whenever i hang out with my friends, or basically if i did anything other than sit alone in my room unless she was with me

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 71w

literally 😭 my friends HATED him cause he always tried keeping me from them. i couldn’t even have self care nights without my phone blowing up

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