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Why do guys insist on pursuing me when I make it clear from the beginning that it’s never gonna go anywhere romantically or even sexually. I’m not very pretty and I’m chubby. So it’s not the looks keeping them in my DMs 💀
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Anonymous 6w

Sounds like you just ran into a few bad ones. Don’t put that on all of them

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Anonymous 6w

I mean either your rich or what’s also pretty common is a lot of guys hear “not pretty? Chubby? Lower standards, easy puss” and shoot their shot. Many guys have like non existent standards lol

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Anonymous 6w

The insecurity is screaminggg

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Anonymous 6w

I don’t why you would say that. But I pray Allah blesses you, guides you and make you among those of Jannah. Please be nicer sister

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Anonymous 6w

So many things wrong with this. I’m not whoring around and you’re devoting your life to a man made religion so you have much bigger fish to fry than me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I wouldn’t say they’re bad. Maybe just wasting their time more than anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Says who

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Me, a guy who has seen this story play out before a dozen times. I’m 32 - it’s common

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

This might be it. But I also say before the convo that this won’t go anywhere sexually or romantically. They still think they can love bomb me though? Weirdos

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Speaking from experience the vast majority guys will always shoot their shot so I’d just adjust expectations if any guy talks to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Or “chubby so very pretty and hot”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Not excusing their behavior by any means tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Wdym?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I’m Muslim as well, please don’t let that comment make you think less of Islam. I don’t think you’re whoring around and it’s not nice to assume that. Maybe some are genuine while others may not be but lowkey if it were me i might not even text them no more cause then both are times are wasted. But personally I would look for someone serious about marriage who doesn’t want anything physical until marriage.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

I think less about all religion. I’m atheist. Plus the point of my comment was asking why men linger in my DMs even though I’ve made it clear I’m not interested. I’m not asking how to weed through them. I’m not interested period. So I’m confused as to why they waste their energy.

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