
You can get a separate surgery to get cosmetic balls put on but as far as I know meitoplasty and phaloplasty don’t like by default give you balls, they’re about lengthening the clit. (For context I don’t have bottom surgery but I’ve been on hormones a few years so I’ve looked into it a bit).
Nowhere did anyone shame detransitioning. I literally said that we shouldn’t tell people what they should or shouldn’t do with their bodies. If someone wants to detransition that’s up to them. The person I was replying to was actively encouraging people to not transition which is something that should also be up to the individual.