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i’m curious if weight is super important. I feel like i’m scared to flirt or be with guys because im kinda chubby. I am so beautiful tho and not even rlly that chubby but im just super insecure and i genuinely don’t know how to be free from the mindset
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Anonymous 1d

It’s not really weight. Healthy is important and 50% of Americans are obese.

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Anonymous 1d

Honestly as a chubby girl who’s been insecure her whole life I totally get it. But the best thing is to learn to love yourself, you deserve love and honestly I have found an amazing boyfriend who loves me for me and my stomach and rolls, he doesn’t mind my weight at all. I know It is hard to always feel fully happy with yourself on off days. And I honestly started doing things to make myself more confident, like taking care of myself and taking more pictures. confidence is really attractive!!

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Anonymous 1d

How chubby we talking?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

My point is don’t let your weight define you for who you are, your personality matters too. Have confidence in yourself and try to find ways to help you feel more confident and happy with the way you look and feel!! Beauty is more than just your weight, so don’t be scared to flirt!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

great wisdom. I do feel rlly confident tho and i am so happy with how i look and feel but when it comes to putting myself out there i just feel like nobody would want to be with me. IDK horrible thoughts but im like how do i just move forward

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

5’8 220

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Aw:((. I’m sure you’re an amazing person and there will be someone who wants you, I just think again building that confidence up and just try talking to someone, it doesn’t have to be immediately flirting. just getting to know the person and their interests will show them that you care and who knows maybe they will catch on like I like this person, but again every person is different from person to person. I hope my advice here is at least a little helpful if anything lol.

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