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therealjokerr

Why do people ghost? And why is it so tough to let it go?
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Anonymous 25w

people ghost because it's easier to do nothing than to have a hard conversation about expectations and emotions. that doesn't make it acceptable, but most people take the easy way out of things.

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Anonymous 25w

i ghost when i genuinely dont give a fuck

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Anonymous 25w

People get bored and tired. They might feel like they want something, but then over time they might lose feelings and they don’t know how to end it, so they ghost

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Anonymous 25w

Different languages of communication—often those that do are more in tune towards the avoidant type or not wanting to cause conflict… I personally don’t fully understand as to why, but it also differs per person and per situation so

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Anonymous 25w

I can really relate bc I’ve also been recently ghosted and it’s hard to move on from

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Anonymous 25w

Because

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 25w

3 months of talking daily, getting to know the person, only for them to just go quiet when the real conversation started

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Anonymous replying to -> therealjokerr 25w

Yeah I knew them for months and they just stopped talking to me completely. Just when I started developing feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 25w

Idec atp it hurts but time to let go of being the nice guy now

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 25w

Afted 2 months of talking daily, you decide that?

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