maybe eucalyptus/eucalyptus and mint? or you could get her a warmie if it won't trigger your allergy (I'm not sure how sensitive you are or if Warmies even have real lavender but you'd have to look into it). They're weighted lavender scented stuffed animals that can be put in the microwave and they're great for anxiety :)

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bergamot and sweetgrass have a similar smell

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maybe just a spray from the same brand with a different scent!?

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if the sole reason is to help her sleep, i’d recommend a magnesium lotion/oil that she can put on before bed! it’s definitely different than a spray, but it still has a little bit of routine to it if you think she’d like that!

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gardenia or eucalyptus maybe

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Aren’t sprays just artificial? Like there’s no actual lavender or chamomile in the can I’m pretty sure.

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