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Who actually believes girls and guys can have friends of opposite gender and not have a crush on them or find them attractive?
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Anonymous 21h

normal people

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Anonymous 18h

I actually think you’re weird if you genuinely don’t think girls and guys can just be friends

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Anonymous 20h

Me and most people I’ve met.

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Anonymous 20h

Me and all of my friends

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Anonymous 19h

I don’t have an issue with it til something is done that shows different Intentions 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous 19h

I feel like that only works if at least one of them is ugly asf. All of my guy friends have at some point confessed that they were into me. Some early on, some after YEARS. The only reason it didn’t turn into something was because I wasn’t attracted to them. Two people that are attracted to each other AND love each other’s personalities is a recipe for catching feelings.

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Anonymous 13h

I literally have so many platonic male friends

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Anonymous 21h

Me

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Anonymous 14h

Me. I have a guy friend from my old town that I was best friends with in highschool, and we would play videogames together. My boyfriend is well aware of him, and my friend also has a wife now and we are all cool with each other 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous 18h

Me. Im a straight guy with several female friends, some of them are very pretty people but I just see them as friends

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Anonymous 17h

One of my closest friends is a guy. We’ve been friends since kindergarten and neither of us have ever been attracted to each other in that way. We’ll always be just friends.

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Anonymous 14h

I want to believe it but people keep proving me wrong

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Anonymous 7h

somebody’s got friend zoned one too many times

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Anonymous 6h

I assume every guy that doesn’t think this thinks of women as sex objects instead of people.

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Anonymous 12h

me and my hb both have partners and we still chill

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Anonymous 11h

i think it depends on how trusting you are if you’re in a relationship #1 and #2 if the friends find eachother attractive or not, sadly any time i’m friends with a guy i’ve found out later that they’re into me other than my boyfriends buddies

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Anonymous 6h

Adults.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

One of my closest friends is a girl but we know nothing will come of it and besides we don’t wanna date each other anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

Or it’s a “well they’re great except for….” And if that thing changed suddenly there’s a crush. Like if a guy is a player so the girl don’t date him, but then he matures and values loyalty and exemplifies it, the girl will be open to dating him. That’s why I don’t trust ppl that are like “oh that’s so dumb it’ll never happen!!” It does all the time. Friendships are how most people started dating before online dating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

I agree with this 100%, because I feel like most of the time people are only friends with the opposite gender if they find them attractive in some type of way

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

Yeah exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 18h

Yeah cause that means you’re looking to get something out of a girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 6h

why are they downvoting you you’re right

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