
I feel like that only works if at least one of them is ugly asf. All of my guy friends have at some point confessed that they were into me. Some early on, some after YEARS. The only reason it didn’t turn into something was because I wasn’t attracted to them. Two people that are attracted to each other AND love each other’s personalities is a recipe for catching feelings.
Or it’s a “well they’re great except for….” And if that thing changed suddenly there’s a crush. Like if a guy is a player so the girl don’t date him, but then he matures and values loyalty and exemplifies it, the girl will be open to dating him. That’s why I don’t trust ppl that are like “oh that’s so dumb it’ll never happen!!” It does all the time. Friendships are how most people started dating before online dating.