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How do I get over a breakup if we were together for years
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Anonymous 2w

you don’t. you wash your clothes and you take a shower and you eat every day and one day you’ll wake up and it’ll have been a while and you’ll realize you’re happier

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Anonymous 2w

It hurts it sucks. It will hurt less but by bit. Get a new hobby, make new friends, try and better yourself for yourself. Remember that you can and will get through this it will just take time

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Anonymous 2w

Going through this rn and tbh its getting harder by the day, its been like 5-6 months since and the more distant we are the more I want her

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Anonymous 2w

spend time w the ppl that love you whether that’s family or friends being w ppl makes it hurt less until it stops hurting all together

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Anonymous 2w

just gotta wait

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Anonymous 2w

This helped me a lot: https://youtu.be/tCnIK5-J-6M

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Anonymous 2w

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I second this. I went through it a year ago and time and occupying yourself with things that will better yourself like a hobby, a job like I did, and friends are the best things that you can do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

HONESTLY YOU JUST WAKE UP ONE DAY AND YOU’RE HAPPIER THAT IS SO TRUE

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

You got this brother, I’ll be praying for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

THIS. it’s bad and it sucks and the misery is inescapable. There’s nowhere and no one you can go to for salvation. And then one day you realize you haven’t thought about them in days. And life goes on

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

So true, going through this exact same things rn.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

Thank all of yall for your help

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