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What’s a way to breakup up with a guy you’ve been with for 5 years y’all’s family is tight but he’s crazy won’t let you leave him and he’s a shitty bf to you but thinks he’s amazing but you also want a clean break so you don’t have to deal with his drama
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Anonymous 4w

Like Nike said. JUST DO IT

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Anonymous 4w

Uh it's over hello

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Anonymous 4w

You have to just pack up and leave while he’s gone somewhere. When he comes to an empty house and reads a note would be easier. Block all forms of communication.

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Anonymous 4w

Hmm yeah this mam sounds dangerous. He’s refusing to leave you and will stalk and harasses you if you try to leave. It’s time to think about if this is dating abuse/domestic violence. Cause just leaving him may not be safe for you. 34% of female homicides are done by their partner.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I did a bunch of times 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

And every time he’s like nope your not leaving

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Then say YES I am and block him. He can’t tell you what to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

girl u must be dumb asf to listen to him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I did that to I blocked him and he texted all my friends and family

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I didn’t listen I blocked him and said f you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

and then he told all of my friends and family that I was overreacting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Then just tell them it’s over and don’t talk to him anymore. He will complain to everyone else while you move on with life and eventually give up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s what I mean when I say he’s crazy how do you break up with someone with out them telling you no and if you don’t listen try tell everybody your the crazy one here because I don’t give him a reason why but the reason why is he’s not my type at all but everybody is mad because we have been together for 5 years and we are supposed to get married or whatever but I don’t want to marry that peace of shit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

then DONT. Just say it’s over. Move on. Let him cry and say whatever to whoever. While you live life. He doesn’t control your life unless you let him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I did that and everyone was mad 😭 everyone says I’m a good example on him and I need to stay with him but what about me where’s my good example or s Do I have to deal with a peace of shit and raise his dumb ass to be a good boy😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

All I wanted was to know some ways to tell someone your done 😭 ik I need to leave him but I have told him in so many ways ways he won’t take any of them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yea he will say stuff to people and they will say stuff to you. Ignore it and him and just do you. Otherwise you are gonna stay with him forever and be miserable

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Ik that’s exactly why I’m trying to figure out the nicest way to tell him I’m done so they can’t complain too much about it 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Because if anything I hate him more then I love him he don’t wanna be with me trust but he won’t trust

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Like I mentioned earlier. Just do it and say it’s over. Can ask ChatGPT nicer way to word it if you want. But after just ignore him and his antics and live life 😀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

I don’t live with him I told him I wasn’t ready for that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Here are some places that can help you even if it’s not that serious talk to them it might help or not. The national domestic abuse hotline is great cause they got a safe exit button and you can call, text, or chat online.

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