Commenting as a straight man so i dont lose this <33

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As a man I’ve had one guy enter me…it was nothing special. Gf has pegged me. That seems to get a bit better each time.

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I personally like it. Not gonna lie it’s ROUGH in the beginning but lube makes it so much more enjoyable- 27F

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I did that with my first gf. It weirded me out that I could feel her pulse on me while getting busy. She used her safe word before I busted. :(

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Imo it’s only worth it if you know what you’re doing. I had a guy who I was hooking up w/ beg me to do try it out w/ him but neither of us really knew what we were doing so it was just awful & embarrassing. The “con” I’d say is that you’d need to do a lot of prep work leading up to it like douching & such. Alongside that, you cant really just stick it up there like how you would vaginally. You’d need to do a bit of training to get yourself ready/accustomed & you’d need a lot of lube too.

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as a girl I like it but not full on yk. having a guy put a finger in while I’m on top of him / in doggy is peak 🥵

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Yes, start small. Buttplugs ftw

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yeah that shit is elite as a bi man. can’t speak for the women

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