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Am I a loser for not driving at 19?
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Anonymous 1d

i didn’t get my license until i was 19 due to many personal and family reasons. not everyone understands that not everyone has the support that’s needed to be able to drive. it’s nothing to be ashamed of if you haven’t been able to get your license yet.

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Anonymous 1d

nah you're fine. do what you want

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Anonymous 21h

Not really bro I know someone that is in their late 30's and still does not have a driver license

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Anonymous 1d

You are not.

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Anonymous 1d

Really

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Anonymous 21h

The most majority of people in Europe dont even drive or have a driver license because of how expensive it is to get one🙈

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Anonymous 20h

I’m 25 now, didn’t get my license until I was 21. Trust me, you’re good

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Anonymous 15h

Nah. I think it’s easier to develop the skill earlier and there’s a bunch of times where it’s helpful to be able to drive (moving, going to/from school, traveling to visit friends and family, etc). It’s also the photo ID people are expecting when they ask for one. But you’re not a loser for not having a license.

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Anonymous 1d

most def

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Anonymous 1d

Is it due to fear

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah highk

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Anonymous 1d

Clearly the people in these replies dont have their license

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Anonymous 16h

Yes

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Anonymous 1d

yes

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Anonymous 1d

If you’re from the US, then yeah

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Anonymous 1d

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

That's a really important point. It's so true that not everyone has the same support or opportunities when it comes to things like getting a driver's license. Life throws different challenges at everyone, and it's definitely not something to be ashamed of if you've had to navigate those on your own timeline. Thanks for sharing that perspective.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

I’m 20 and don’t have my license yet. For me it’s just cuz I honestly hate driving lolll and kept putting it off for years

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

I take my test next month I just wish I had someone to help out yk? I failed first time because of reverse and parallel parking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

you have absolutely no reason to feel like a loser then. i didn't even have to parallel park on my test, i probably would have failed it too if i did.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

Nope. My mom just not too keen on me getting that kind of freedom yet :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

None of my friends did either 😭 I hate how strict my county is

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Ohhh well if it’s circumstances you can’t control then no

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

I’m an adult though there’s got to be something I can do hm?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Well do you have a vehicle you can drive ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

what do you mean by that

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22h

My moms 💀 i feel icky tho using it without asking but I barely do tho cause she’ll indirectly say no anyways

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 17h

Oh wait. I forgot I didn’t get my license until I was 22.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

Wait then why did you say OP was a loser before?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Ohhhhhh that’s icky, you’re a legal adult. Tf you mean your mom doesn’t want you to have the freedom to leave??

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