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my guy friend likes me. he is an INCREDIBLE friend but i’m not attracted to him at all. i’ve been friend zoning him by calling him buddy, loser, bro, bruh, etc and “bullying” him. idk if it’s working. what do i do? i dont want it to be awkward
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Anonymous 2w

Tell him straight up he’s a great guy and an amazing friend, and that this is the lane he holds in your life. Just know he might act different afterward. If he was moving off attraction, his vibe may shift. If he was genuine, he’ll adjust and things will settle. Let him know you’ll be his wing girl and help him find someone great. Calling him “bruh” or “twin” isn’t enough now since couples say that too. ~Unc

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Anonymous 2w

Just be honest with him. If he is really your friend, he will understand. This is coming from a guy who in high school developed feelings for his best friend and we remained best friends after. Honesty is the best policy here

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Anonymous 2w

Sleep with him, start dating him, then cheat on him making sure you get caught. It’s the best way to get rid of him.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

⬆️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

thanks unc🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

i hope we’re fine after, i don’t want to make it awkward or anything:/

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

great idea!! maybe after dating we should get married and have a couple kids AND THEN cheat on him so he really gets the message

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

That’s the spirit!

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