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I hate how I crave male validation just to feel desirable. How do I move away from this and fix the problem? F22
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Anonymous 23h

There’s nothing wrong with wanting male validation! I say put yourself out there, let someone take you out, go on some dates and be open to a committed relationship with someone who you can see loving you!

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Anonymous 1d

You’re perfect the way you are! They are the problem….not you.

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Anonymous 1d

therapy

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Anonymous 11h

There is nothing wrong with this it’s healthy to seek validation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Shouldn’t I find other ways to feel desired? I think I just want to be in a relationship tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Words of affirmation is a love language. It just has to be paired with reality. If someone smothers you in words of affirmation but treats you poorly, that’s unhealthy

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