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So I just got out of a 4 year relationship. (Started when I was 14-ended 18) that was really sexually “aggressive”. Like felt like I had 0 sexual control over myself😭. Now, all I want to do is hoe around on my own terms. Is that justified?? Idk man😭
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Anonymous 21h

it be like that sometimes

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Anonymous 19h

justified is maybe a weird judgment to make but it's completely understandable psychologically, if that helps you

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Anonymous 18h

#4 was calling women whores in multiple threads. blocked him here and they all disappeared

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Anonymous 18h

Justified doesn’t matter. If that’s what you wanna do, do it. It’s your body bro. If it turns out you don’t like it, don’t do it. If you love it, keep doing it. Trust your judgement and let yourself enjoy your sexuality, no matter what that entails. Also ignore #4 they’re a judgmental dumbass

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Anonymous 15h

It’s your body, your decisions. If you’re comfortable with yourself do what you want. However don’t expect everyone else to accept that about you because it definitely matters to others.

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Anonymous 19h

Why the fuck would anyone do that. Its your fault u stayed. Id want a break from being dominated fr. The relationship was on your own terms so idk wat u mean. Do go filling the void with strangers u will regret it when u find someone worth staying with bc they are goikg to want to know who u are when u dont have a boyfriend simply because thats what u chose to do alone. So that makes u who u are. Nobodys gonna want that and if yr honest u will tell them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

Honestly I kinda agree. I’m not sure what is acceptable in modern dating because I didn’t have a typical highschool dating experience. Also, it’s a tad more complicated than “it’s your fault you stayed” ykwim

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

Yr in chi body count matters

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Dating is moraless and anything goes its disgusting really but the social construct dominates the masses minds so its no fighting the collective. Please dont do that to yourself u will regret and whoever finds out will never let u live it down

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

you sound like a bit of an asshole

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

Just googled ‘yr in chi’ to see if it was slang I don’t know, but it turns out you just can’t spell Also, body count only matters personally. If you give a shit about how many people you’ve fucked, then it matters. Aside from that it really doesn’t matter at all. Nothing changes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

I just blocked him. I get what he’s trying to say but he did not need to be like that. He’s definitely the “nice guys always finish last🥺…” kinda dude 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

Jesus Christ himself was not this judgmental of literal whores. Tone it down, freak.

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