Mainly because it hurts my feelings and makes me feel like shit

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Totally

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Your feelings matter.

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Yeah that’s a very valid reason to tell someone to not make plans with you because it’s their own fault that you don’t want them doing so. You can tell them something along the lines of “don’t make any plans with me because you always end up leaving me hanging and flaking on the day of Idk why you even consider making plans with me. Let’s just not do this till you’re ready to not waste my time and actually want to hang out or do something.”

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