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i need a guy who looks like this but i fear no man this good looking would wanna settle, where do ya'll i can find such men who acc want relationships and not just hu? 😭
6 upvotes, 22 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Anything. "i need a guy who looks like this but i fear no man this good looking would wanna settle, where do ya'll i can find such men who acc want relationships and not just hu? 😭"
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Anonymous 2w

You don’t need to “find” anyone “this good looking”. Focus on yourself and being someone in this life and having a career and when you least expect it, a guy who matches your level will notice you and sweep you off your feet

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Anonymous 2w

I get a lot of compliments and guys assure me I’m a 9-10 but I’d call myself a fair 8 on a good day. And I agree with #5, i genuinely don’t know what girls want or find attractive anymore, I’ve had girls go through my camera roll and the pictures I’ve contemplated deleting because i thought they were mid they stop and comment on. Idk man

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Anonymous 2w

I may have but I’m afraid I’m that attractive 😕

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Anonymous 2w

As a dude why do I completely not understand what looks attractive to a woman, like this guy is pale, doesn’t look like he’s done anything to his eyebrows, brown eyes, has some acne growing, half his face inside his hoodie, and hair is literally just unstyled and overgrown normal hair, not even a style. Idk what I’m doing wrong or what this guy is doing right but clearly there’s something

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Anonymous 2w

1) be objectively beautiful (a 9 out of ten or higher) 2) don’t fuck him right away. IK THERES EXCEPTIONS but if u fuck right away he’ll probably subconsciously interpret you as being a ho & not wanna settle down. My hg never listened to me abt it and could never get a bf. 3) have a good personality. Those are the three things I do and all of my exes are 10s (6’3+, fit, face handsome asf) one was a model for a luxury brand.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

wdym?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I meant I’m not that attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

then how do you look like this lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I don’t lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

its harder doing then be saying said

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Of course it’s hard. You want things easy in life? Then don’t expect anything great

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Anonymous 2w

It’s valid asf. I’m not a shill literally all of my exes r fine asf. And there is such a thing as objectively beautiful. There are literal studies that you can google if you’re not a moron. Has a lot do with symmetry and feature placement. If you think a lot of 10s are trying to settle down with 1s then I have a beach house in Idaho to sell you!😂 I hate idiots fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

hey well it's hard out here cut me some slack

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

lol fair enough 1s and 10s crazy i think im 7-8 definitely not a 9 especially at a school like UM when half the girls have things done but yeah there's definitely the objectively attractive, i'm a virgin btw so and waiting for marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

well honestly it's that i didn't put any effort look, as a girl whose very high maintenance i would love to just have someone chill, i wanna be comfy with and not have to do a lot with it, and how is this guy not attractive i want to cuddle him omg 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Then what are we waiting for? Dm me please

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I’m not saying he’s not attractive I just don’t get why I’m not and he is😭. I feel like I have a lot of similarities to him features-wise but overall I obv look different and have not had much luck in life with people being attracted to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

wdym by girls go through ur camera roll lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

well there's smthg visually attractive about him, to each their own but dw you're the only one i haven't had m uh luv either

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I mean over time girls I know have looks at the pictures in my phone and always go crazy on the ones I think are mid, and don’t even really care to much about the ones I think are good🤷🏻‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

lol exactly.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

men putting too much effort is unattractive, basic hygiene is enough ya'll need to focus on earning well and being fit

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