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this guy im talking to hasnt done anything wrong but I keep getting the ick and I dont know if its my attachment issues or if I actually dont like him. We've only been on one date and it was a good date but like urugjhjj. I KNOW hes gonna ask me to be his gf if we go on another and im just like. idk. is this just what its like to potentially have a bf for the first time as a fucked up girl? I just wanna run away bro 🧘‍♀️🧘‍♀️
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Anonymous 16h

“I want a bf” is very different from “I want him to be my bf”

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Anonymous 18h

i think u don’t like him 😭🙏

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Anonymous 15h

I think you gotta jump the gun and ask him to go really slow. You can get to know him more before he asks you out. Also, don’t be afraid of turning him down. He will recover, and you’ll find someone else eventually. Dating early on is a lesson, not a life sentence

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

but like. I want a bf. and I hardly know him and he hasnt done anything I think i just have issues 🙃🙃🙃

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

HMMMMM

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7h

and see i KNOW that and I think im just gonna ask him to go slow im just scared of myself I think 😔

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