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Any tips on how to not pay so much attention to how I’m perceived by others? Like I’m just trying to be confident and not give so much of a shit 😑
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Anonymous 2w

What I do is just mind my own business cuz im ngl no one knows who just walked past them after 10 seconds and they go on about their day

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Anonymous 2w

I can’t give any advice but thank you for asking this because I feel the same way I’m getting out of a 2 year relationship and I just do not feel confident anymore

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Anonymous 2w

It’s fear response. Likely can’t get rid of it 100% but you can baby step your way to mitigating it. Exposure is the answer, you have to show your brain proof, not a promise, that nobody gaf. Here’s a basic level 1 easy example:

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Anonymous 2w

Develop an attitude of I don’t give a fuck about anyone. And you’ll be fine.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

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