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I need y’all’s opinions. If you were taking care of a baby for 7 months for 15hrs a week helping them learn and truly caring for the child and the parent didn’t invite you to their first birthday party, would you be hurt? Am I wrong for feeling this way?
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Anonymous 5w

No I wouldn’t be hurt. I’m not their parent or family it’s understandable. This is special moment for them. Yes you care for them but you can also bring gift the next day you come in to help and have your own time with them.

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah I'd be hurt. And no you're not wrong for feeling that way. So much to the point I wouldn't fuck with any of them anymore. They would be calling me. I wouldn't be calling them. And I'd fuck with them when I felt like it or still not at all. See I'm quick to leave when you do me wrong. If I'm not there you can't do me wrong again

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Anonymous 5w

If I’m just a babysitter I wouldn’t expect them to invite me

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Anonymous 4w

i would be. i mean you are in their home all the time with their child all the time what is the big deal. they should like you and trust you obviously soooo..? but maybe they didn’t want you to feel obligated to come??

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