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How tf do people make friends out of college…? Even in college I didn’t have a whole lot of friends outside of my sports team but now I’m seeing we were friends due to proximity, which is cool but like … now what 😄🧍🏽‍♂️?
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Anonymous 4w

Join a drinking adult league. Softball kickball football etc

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Anonymous 4w

Working lol. You see those people 40 hours a week you’ll bond eventually lol. About half of my “adult” friends are work colleagues and the other half are from college lol

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Anonymous 4w

Start playing video games regularly and find u a game squad

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Anonymous 4w

Find a hobby then find tht community

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Anonymous 4w

Start going to literally any event where there will be ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Facts, and since being back I’ve been playing a lot of volleyball and have met a good amount of people but I haven’t found deep connections like some that I once had, but I’m fs gonna keep trying. More of seeing if there’s any other effort I could put in

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Well if u want a deep connection then a hobby tht requires/allows for more talking than sports is required. Might i suggest a table top like D&D or Magic the gathering

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah, I need to be uncomfortable and just show up to more social events … at least I can say I tried if anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I’d consider this for any sport outside of volleyball, I enjoy the fun but I’m too competitive to do the drinking leagues 🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Flag football and softball get competitive quick. Broke my collarbone in flag so retired to kickball though

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I’m the youngest amongst the people I work with and tho they’re cool I don’t think we will have any relationship outside of professional 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

On of my closest friends is a work colleague that’s 5 years younger than me. Age is just a number. I’m friends with people 20-50 years older than me. All I’ve met at work.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Age is not just a number lol

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