if he can't understand a basic request for privacy in the fucking BATHROOM of all places, does he even respect your boundaries at all

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idk how yall feel but to me when i shower with my partner or share a bed with them to sleep it's not a real shower/sleep. it's like im performing showering or sleeping not actually doing the task. that's why i feel like i can only do it a few times a week

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Not wrong at all. That’s just basic disrespect. Worst part is that I’ve found that a lot of cishet men just don’t comprehend that!! My bf turns off my alarms because he wants to see me more, and it’s like. I appreciate the reason but genuinely what the fuck dude. Do you not respect my time or my goals? Have a serious conversation and depending on how he reacts I’d keep track of how often things like this are happening

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Not at all, you set a boundary, your partner should respect that. Make sure he knows how you feel about it and if he doesn’t respect that then that’s a problem

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he feels entitled to your space and your naked body and that’s odd

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