Ask Anything on Sidechat | why do I feel weird talking to guys younger than me? Even if it’s by a week they’re younger than me, its a no, but if a guys older than me by a year or something then it’s like, yayy. But I’m f20 and don’t see myself talking to a 19 year old idk.

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Ask Anything 1d

why do I feel weird talking to guys younger than me? Even if it’s by a week they’re younger than me, its a no, but if a guys older than me by a year or something then it’s like, yayy. But I’m f20 and don’t see myself talking to a 19 year old idk.

Anonymous 1d

Maybe because of the ingrained cultural stereotype that the guy has to be the one in charge etc and that correlates with maturity which correlates (very loosely btw) with age

Anonymous 1d

You may just need someone more mature or it’s just personal preference

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Anonymous 1d

I feel like sometimes it’s not actually the age gap, it’s what “younger” represents in your head 😭 like 19 and 20 can be basically the same life stage, but your brain hears “younger guy” and immediately goes nope. Attraction is weird like that lol

Anonymous 16h

Thinking too hard hoe

Anonymous 16h

Hypocrisy 101

Anonymous

#2 14h

Mmmm lowkey o was thinking the same thing twin. Cause I’m just curious on why most people are like this yk? And then like, the opposite of it, when ppl feel like they can only talk to ppl younger than them the science behind that

Anonymous

#4 14h

im a stem baddie that’s all I ever fuckin do😭

Anonymous

#5 14h

how?