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Am I horrible for not calling the cops on my ex/bsf for driving after smoking weed? My ocd is saying I'm horrible for it. I need to get back on mh meds
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Anonymous 2w

You are not horrible

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Anonymous 2w

You’re not horrible. If you’re concerned for their safety and the safety of others, tell them that you are not comfortable with them doing it.

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Anonymous 2w

Most of the time the cops can’t actually pull someone over based on a call like that. But you have the right impulse, DUI is serious and causes legit tens of thousands of deaths every year so don’t think badly of yourself for wanting to stop it. And don’t listen to 3, you’re not being a “rat” by doing the right thing.

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Anonymous 2w

Just wait until you see the actual bad things going on in this world trust me you would’ve regretted that decision to be a rat for a longgg time and would’ve ruined that relationship for life… the amount of people who do that every day or weekend would blow ur mind… but honestly it’s pretty clear you are a younger female anyway based on saying ex/bsf and ocd meds so these words probably won’t stick with you… good luck later in life remember that thing about burning bridges lol it’s who u kno

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Im freaking out because someone else on yikyak said I'd be an asshole for not reporting him.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

well now two people said you're good, so it cancels out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Is it ok that I don't want to though? The only reason I want to is my ocd compulsion. He has a high tolerance so I kinda believe he can drive well on it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It’s actually not okay. DUI isn’t something to be taken lightly, but most people aren’t the type to do anything about it, and in reality there’s not much you can do, but would you let someone just dangle a bowling ball over your mothers head while stoned? I’ve known a couple people who died because of that kind of shit, it’s not a joke when you hear “burned to the point of being unrecognizable.” About someone you know because someone else decided they “had a higher tolerance.”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

In this case I think the OCD might just be your conscience telling you you’re not actually okay with something.

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