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Is it a red flag if the guy I’m dating wants something long term but is unsure about saying “forever” yet? Is he leading me on or is there hope that he will eventually want forever?

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Anonymous 2w

Not a red flag. Forever is a good long time. And I wouldn’t push it. You might scare him off. Especially if you haven’t been dating long

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Anonymous 2w

Forever is like a 2 yr point honestly- coming from a 4 yr relationship

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Anonymous

#2 2w

This. I never let myself even think about marriage until two years. I didn’t even say it out loud

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#4 2w

We’re both gonna graduate in like 2.5 years and he says it’s not fair to us to say if we’ll still be together or not after that because life happens. I know that’s true but I feel like if he really liked me he wouldn’t say that?

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OP 2w

I feel like you’re over thinking it. If he didn’t like you he would’ve broken up with you

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