Against my better judgement I looked up my name in my best friend’s messages and found her complaining about me to her boyfriend, calling me petty and mean. Should I address it? I invaded her privacy but I’m also kind of hurt she didn’t bring it up to me
No need to address anything. Just let her go. If she never appreciated you, then I’m sure she won’t care if you suddenly go your own way. Protecting your mental health comes first