Ask Anything on Sidechat | This may not sound good. But any other girls who have been assaulted and groomed feel the need sometimes to have a guy dominate and use you sexually, and even hurt you a bit? Or am I messed up?

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Ask Anything 11w

This may not sound good. But any other girls who have been assaulted and groomed feel the need sometimes to have a guy dominate and use you sexually, and even hurt you a bit? Or am I messed up?

Anonymous 11w

it's not an uncommon coping strategy. doesn't mean that it's healthy, but it's definitely not like you're especially fucked up here

Anonymous 11w

No you’re not. I definitely want that but need a ton of aftercare after as reassurance

Anonymous 11w

Yes you're messed up. You need to heal from whatever trauma that incurred to have you in that frame of mind. OR you need to find out if that's kink for you. I'm not into none of that shit you mentioned. I don't want to fuck like that

Anonymous 11w

Meanwhile if this is kink. This needs to be discussed before sex even happens. I'm not interested in fucking like that. And if decide to get kinky I'm not going to need any reassurance

Anonymous 11w

its a common thing in people who’ve experience abuse or SA. i was very hyper sexual until getting therapy

Anonymous

#2 11w

Yeah I just said it's a kink

Anonymous

#3 11w

It was a kink before but now the reassurance part is because of the trauma I do have. Sex in general tends to take a toll on me

Anonymous

#2 11w

Well you're supposed to having a good time having sex. So you might want to do something about that