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how do i begin to let people in? i always feel like i’ve had my own wall up, and i’ve had friends; i’ve never had anyone consider me to be their best friend. i’ve always struggled with friendships in the past, and have become a little jaded. how to fix?
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Anonymous 3w

It’s going to take years just to build a temporary haven. Trust me.

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Anonymous 3w

I have the same problem if u wanna talk abt it but i guess that’s our problem we don’t talk lol

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Anonymous 3w

so this question is literally about having a best friend? so I guess you clearly haven’t learned you don’t need friends

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Anonymous 3w

build relationship w Jesus first

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

it’s lonely in a way. i do really want to have friends, and have people that feel i belong. but at the same time it’s always been really hard for me. even through elementary school and all i’ve been alone. i think having friends and people to lean on is a good thing. i just don’t know how.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

maybe we can try together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I know you need to learn how to love yourself where you can be by yourself. You don't need friends

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