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I was raised to care about someone’s sexual past with whom I get romantically involved with (saving yourself for marriage). Now ik in my head that’s so childish and silly. But how do I make my heart and soul follow along with that?
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Anonymous 11w

I think you just gotta do some unlearning and then relearning. A persons sexual past doesn’t really matter to me as long as it’s not causing disfunction in their life (porn/sex addiction typa thing) because it doesn’t really change the person that they are in a significant way

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Anonymous 11w

do you not know that you’re ultimately in control of you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I mean that’s a shitty and not very helpful answer 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

That’s like telling someone with depression just don’t be sad cause you’re in control of yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

It's shitty cause I'm telling you the truth. And no one can ever handle the truth IDK why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I'm just trying to make you actually think instead of telling you what to do. Either you're going to save yourself or you aren't. Either you're want to start being a hoe or youbaren't. Either you want to explore it or you don't. Either you know right from wrong or you don't. Either you care or you don't

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Yeah but it’s not helpful. Yes you’re right that’s true. But that’s not advice… nor is it helping in anyway. Might as well just not comment 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I don’t think you read my question properly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Yeah and I don't think you know what you want either

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

You’re confused broski. Just move along

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I'm confused? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You're entire post is YOU being confused

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Yeah but yourre clearly lost in the question

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Yeah but? Ok sport

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

You’re clearly a bothered individual to continue keeping up with whatever you’re trying to accomplish. Go to sleep bozo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

It takes one to know one. No I decided to leave this silly shit. That's the difference between me and you

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