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I was raised to care about someone’s sexual past with whom I get romantically involved with (saving yourself for marriage). Now ik in my head that’s so childish and silly. But how do I make my heart and soul follow along with that?
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Anonymous 4w

I think you just gotta do some unlearning and then relearning. A persons sexual past doesn’t really matter to me as long as it’s not causing disfunction in their life (porn/sex addiction typa thing) because it doesn’t really change the person that they are in a significant way

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Anonymous 4w

do you not know that you’re ultimately in control of you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I mean that’s a shitty and not very helpful answer 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

That’s like telling someone with depression just don’t be sad cause you’re in control of yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It's shitty cause I'm telling you the truth. And no one can ever handle the truth IDK why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I'm just trying to make you actually think instead of telling you what to do. Either you're going to save yourself or you aren't. Either you're want to start being a hoe or youbaren't. Either you want to explore it or you don't. Either you know right from wrong or you don't. Either you care or you don't

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah but it’s not helpful. Yes you’re right that’s true. But that’s not advice… nor is it helping in anyway. Might as well just not comment 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I don’t think you read my question properly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah and I don't think you know what you want either

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

You’re confused broski. Just move along

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I'm confused? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You're entire post is YOU being confused

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah but yourre clearly lost in the question

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah but? Ok sport

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

You’re clearly a bothered individual to continue keeping up with whatever you’re trying to accomplish. Go to sleep bozo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It takes one to know one. No I decided to leave this silly shit. That's the difference between me and you

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