Ask Anything on Sidechat | I cannot find someone im physically attracted to. They are either too nerdy, too muscled and scary, or too ungroomed. Frankly, I think the people I’m physically attracted to scare me because I think they are likely abusive and I run. WTH do I do??

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I cannot find someone im physically attracted to. They are either too nerdy, too muscled and scary, or too ungroomed. Frankly, I think the people I’m physically attracted to scare me because I think they are likely abusive and I run. WTH do I do??

Anonymous 15h

it sounds like therapy might help. not trying to be hurtful but if you’re scared of them so much you’re not willing to give them a chance it might help to work through some things. a lot of us (women) can be afraid of men and dating which is valid most of the time but to date, you need to take risks <3

Anonymous 15h

It sounds more like you are the type that gets attracted to personalities. You just need someone to flirt with you.

Anonymous 11h

Friar Burnham once said, “if you want love, lower your expectations”