I am in the medical field and don’t need a man for his $. lol. I’m tired of grease ball, basement dwelling looking men thinking they have a shot 😂

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Oo. Someone’s salty he can’t get a girl then 😂 do you keep getting left swiped on?

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I mean you’re the one online calling random people bitches. Kettle, meet pot.

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Low quality woman just to want what she genuinely deserves in life? It’s okay, we can see you don’t have very good (or decent) standards. Don’t have to tell us. Enjoy settling. And “bitch in scrubs”? That just shows who you are by saying that

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Anonymous #9 7w

Happy for you bro. Best wishes!

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Anonymous #13 7w

No its what she sounds how she acts and it clearly shows

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Anonymous #9 7w

Romantic... ☺️ I hope I can find my person. I feel I’m running outta time.

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Anonymous #4 7w

To look in somebody’s eyes, to light up the skies. To open the world and send them reeling. A voice that says I’ll be here, and you’ll be alright

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Anonymous #7 7w

thank you!

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Anonymous OP 7w

you can and will. how old are you?

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Anonymous #6 7w

If she was worth a damn she wouldn’t be on yikyak complaining shes lonely to get a reaction to fulfill her need for gratitude that she clearly cant get from anyone around her

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Anonymous #6 7w

Hahah, you don’t know how I act. You sound bitter af tho. Your preconceived ideas are prolly entirely wrong. You’re the one acting like you have rod up your bum and are rejected daily.

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Anonymous #6 7w

..I’m sorry, you know how she acts? Through an anonymous post? No. You’re just mad because she’s hating on low life men, and you take that so personal because you’re a man too. Not every man is the same, but it’s clear when someone gets so offended by someone calling out someone who did them wrong.

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Anonymous #6 7w

And you’re literally doing the same thing lol. If it didn’t hit a sensitive spot you would have scrolled past. Projection isn’t pretty :)

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Anonymous #6 7w

I think you just need to grow up and not fucking hate on people anonymously. If you have something shitty to say, message them or say it to their face. I doubt you’d say this to anyone if it weren’t anonymous.

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Anonymous #13 7w

I feel like 13 and I are just mind reading at this point. lol. ❤️ you, stranger.

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Anonymous #11 7w

Exactly. “Not being a single mom” counts as one of your standards. You shouldn’t have to take care of children that aren’t yours. Even though I believe that it is an extremely noble and courageous thing to do, I do acknowledge that not every man is comfortable with raising another man’s children.

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Anonymous OP 7w

And u deserve more. ❤️ u too :) Men love being self conscious and ignorant I guess

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Anonymous #13 7w

Dats ok. Is what it is. We are all going through crap so I’ll chalk it up to that.

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Anonymous OP 7w

And that’s why ur a good person. Everyone goes thru their own shit. Some people get that, and other people wanna blame someone else for it. Keep that trait with you love

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Anonymous #13 7w

And women love thinking they can do want ever they want say what ever they use who ever they want and have the very literal meaning of double standard treat themselves as if there a 10 when there a 3 and go after 9 and act like they have a shot and then back each other but hate on men when they do it its fucking disgusting they just lack of self aware women have nowadays and act like its normal

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Anonymous #6 7w

Its a fucking epidemic

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Anonymous #6 7w

I’m sorry, you mean women have rights? Like yes we do 😭 Wtf ur not even making any sense right now sorry dude

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Anonymous #6 7w

We get it dude. You’re a 3 with a personality of a 1. I’m sorry the cards weren’t dealt in your favor. At least one of those numbers you can change.

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Anonymous #13 7w

Guys I didn’t know this but we can think!!

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Anonymous OP 7w

And by that, please change ur personality dude. Not attractive. If u act the same in person as u do online, ouch

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Anonymous #13 7w

I can points go right though your head there is just no making you understand I’m done with this conversation have fun chasing men you never have and being a number to some doctor that will use you for overtime hours for there gain

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Anonymous #13 7w

Wild. I have expectations. That’s absolute nonsensical. I want a good dad for my kids. Good thing he won’t be the one calling girls bitches due to his own insecurities

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Anonymous #13 7w

Ive just had it with you’re insane ugly judgement and double standards as-well as all your alls disgusting since of being overly self important and the women of the generation before are tired off it too theres confidence and then theres being disgusting

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Anonymous #6 7w

your*

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Anonymous #13 7w

Oh don’t grammar check me its fucking yik yak

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Anonymous #6 7w

Healthcare workers know not to date healthcare workers. In fact it’s an entire meme: don’t date the 3 Ps: police, physicians and phyerfighters. 😂 I do expect a man to shower tho.

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Anonymous #13 7w

Hahah. Think you meant that for #6, love 😂

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Anonymous #6 7w

BYE dude ur the one losing ur mind over nothing. Shit talking someone you don’t even know

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Anonymous #13 7w

We’re just calling you out on being disrespecting AF

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Anonymous #6 7w

Yep. Definitely a single man who can’t get a girl and became bitter. You know, you can do things in your life to change that trajectory… right. You don’t have to be sad and miserable forever

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Anonymous OP 7w

Oh! So calling out people who are low lives when they are (based on experience) is disrespectful, but calling a woman you don’t even know shit that is sooo disrespectful is okay? I love the double standard from you too love 🥰

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Anonymous #6 7w

I totally understand #6. I know the feelings you’re having very intimately. When I was younger I was so angry and hurt about how unfair everything was. I wanted to love and be loved so badly and that obsession made me so spiteful. I looked online for help and clarity but the internet has a way of blowing things out of proportion to make you angry. I wish I saw it sooner. Things get better bro you just have to focus on your goals and not bother with the negativity and the arguing.

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Anonymous #7 7w

I totally see where you’re coming from and 100% respect it. I just feel like there’s a difference between working those issues out and healing, rather than taking them out on random people online. It’s not okay

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Anonymous #13 7w

Yeah, and what he’s saying is very hurtful and generalizes too many people but I think rather than mocking and insulting him, guiding him towards a healthier point of view is the best approach. It worked for me. The one thing to understand is that the internet is designed to make you miserable and hateful by using your worst insecurities and your deepest desires against you.

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Anonymous #7 7w

I really agree with you. Men have had bad experiences with women. Women have had bad experiences with men. Women with women and men with men. Why is it so hard to understand that you can’t judge anyone based off the one or many experiences you had. Everyone is different. Just choose to be kind, it takes nothing.

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Anonymous #7 7w

It’s not even that she’s a single mom, that’s the kid of the guy you thought was better than me that you now want my help raising, no way lol

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Anonymous OP 7w

No people should help people rather than judge one another and take and use things from one another which women do they don’t care about you they care about what they can do for them its said and I’m tired of loosing friendships and being used by some fake girl that turns the complete opposite from who they presented themselves I’m so tired if hearing women complain about fucking everything all the time and drama bomb and fuck up friendship just cause theres nothing opposition happening

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Anonymous #6 7w

To fap to.

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Anonymous #13 7w

Deflecting like you all always do how nice

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Anonymous #6 7w

I don’t know what to tell you maybe if you had better standards and judgment of character… like the very thing I was noting… you wouldn’t be so bitter. Sounds like you lowered your standards to let fake people into your life and you can’t see that the only way to change that is to change you.

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The easiest and most consistent ways to fix that is to be in a committed relationship. So self control and ban you suddenly get what you want much easier. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous #7 7w

Drop the mic,,, I feel the same way

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Anonymous #18 7w

lol. Well, then I’d feel bad. Like right swipe so I can use you for who you may know 😂

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Anonymous OP 7w

Date the 3rd in power and watch the hierarchy collapse 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous #18 7w

Listen I just got out of a relationship of 4 years where half of it I didn’t think I was attracted to him. Never again.

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Anonymous OP 7w

10 years ago my dad would have called my now husband a loser because he was one. Dead end job, no money, no drive… But now he’s met me, some choice friends and with our help he’s got a good career and is going to college for a history/english degree. He’s my diamond in the rough, just needed some polishing (self-esteem). It gets better, you may have already met him but never knew.

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Anonymous #19 7w

Oh I’m highly picky unfortunately. The things I find physically attractive in a person typically are the exact opposite of the personality I’m attracted to. But to sum it up. A socially competent techie (or really any nerdish career, and I feel like that’s pretty oxymoronic) that is into raving without drugs (also a rare find), plays video games with me and isn’t rough on the eyes (I prefer a metro male)

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Anonymous OP 7w

Omg no way, I went to a concert today Tame Impala in Charlotte and I don’t do drugs!!! Never have and never will and I’m also looking for someone who doesn’t!!! U literally just described me 🥹

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Anonymous #19 7w

I love concerts in general. I have ADHD and dance a lot!!! What’s even crazier is that I’m a tech guy. I coded my own startup, going to work on marketing when I get home tmr from Charlotte 😇

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Anonymous OP 7w

I also have never drunk alcohol, the reason I don’t do any type of brain altering this is because I like to stay healthy and altering my brain is not my definition of fun, but I don’t mind/judge others from doing it

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Anonymous OP 7w

I think ur gunna like my eyes 🤭 is it ok if my eyelashes are long?

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Anonymous #19 7w

This this kinda cute tbh. But you’re several hours away. Also what if you hate how I look 😂😂.

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Haha no. I missed them when they came into town but I went to Vegas to see Illenium

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Anonymous OP 7w

True Love will find its way… where u from. I’m going back to FL tmr

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Anonymous #19 7w

Ga. 😂

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Anonymous OP 7w

Vegas sounds funn. I’ve honestly never heard illenium, but thanks for putting me on. I wanna go to a Still Woozy concert so bad. How many have u been to

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Anonymous #19 7w

I’ve been to about 50 shows since January

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Anonymous OP 7w

Ye it’s like wraps. Coincidence after coincidence. Are u also in tech, or finance, or healthcare, or communications, or something? What did u study

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Anonymous OP 7w

Woah u have me beat, that’s a lot. I’ve only been to 3 and plan to go more. I like music, I know how to play the guitar, really wanna learn the piano

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Bro who tf are you talking about. Stop describing your past relationship on Yik Yak or whatever tf you’re doing

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Anonymous OP 7w

Not said not really needing a relationship either you guys just casually act disgusting and that is infuriating

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Anonymous #6 7w

Says the man acting a fool and being foul.

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Anonymous OP 7w

Not really acting a foul it was a foul of me to think that anyone of you was worth a damn

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Anonymous OP 7w

And the saddest part is you’re get riled up over this shit but its nothing a woman hast said about guys bout purr off to them when they do that shit right

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Anonymous #6 7w

lol I’m not riled up. You might be projecting again.

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Anonymous OP 7w

Never really have been projecting and just cause you have some made up definition of what projection is doesn’t mean you get to just play that shit to deflect the entire conversation the saddest part is that you think that’s projection no thats time and time again life experiences not my own unacceptable thoughts or what ever its not unacceptable when its the truth women want to suck out what ever men can give them as long as it aids there agenda rather than caring for the guy themselves

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Anonymous #6 7w

You’re literally writing an essay and I’m worked up? And you’re not projecting? lol ok

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Anonymous OP 7w

What does that have anything to do with projection sound like your just rattling shit iff to negate anything I’m saying also typical of a women

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Anonymous #6 7w

Everything that has happened here has proved my point the sad thing is you just cant see it

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Anonymous #6 7w

… cause again you’re riled up while telling me I am? lol. Are you projecting rude and dense? No wonder you’re bitter 😂

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Anonymous OP 7w

I’m just here for the comments

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Anonymous #6 7w

Ok. If you say so. You’re prolly a regular featured post on r/niceguys

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Anonymous OP 7w

wtf is that?

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Anonymous #3 7w

Hes definitely agroed. 😂

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Anonymous OP 7w

And this is a genuine statement ts isn’t really directed towards you per-say but its just I’m tired of hearing this shit look if you actually are talking about terrible women than kudos to you but usually you don’t you make up bull shit reason to try in justify treating good men like trash and then circle up and defend yourself like a victim and that is projecting

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You gave a great example of the men they’re avoiding and I’m avoiding in life thank you

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Anonymous OP 7w

As long as you are here there is plenty of time, there always is for love. It sneaks in when you least expect it and turns shit upside down.

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Anonymous #23 7w

At some point girls run out of fertility years :/

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Anonymous #6 7w

People might take you seriously if you figure out the difference between their, there, and they’re🫩

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Anonymous OP 7w

True

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Anonymous #26 7w

lol, that’s not the complaint, my man - but you’re not wrong I’d rather stay single waiting for the right one that hits 90% of my check boxes than lower my standards as I’ve been told by many guys trying to get me to accept them.

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Anonymous OP 7w

You have to be confident that the check boxes you have are really what is going to be what’s important to you in a partner. It sounds like you’ve not had a satisfying relationship before or in a long time. Perhaps you should be more open minded on some of the “requirements” to see what is truly important.

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Anonymous #27 7w

Honestly, good for you. I wasted seven years on a guy between the ages of 18 and 24 then proceeded to think I made the right choice and found the man I was gonna marry and ended up wasting four years on him between the ages of 25 and 30. So keep hunting and don’t waste your time on men who don’t give you what you need.

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Anonymous #28 7w

Get this, it’s not a game show. It’s my entire future. It’s even more important. ;)

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Anonymous #30 7w

Haha. Well guess you’ve never been with one. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous #6 7w

Stop chirping dude. You’re a. Loser. You’ve exposed yourself for being chronic left swiped on. It’s clear that you are exactly what we avoid. If it wasn’t you wouldn’t feel so butt hurt about the post. You feel targeted.

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Anonymous OP 7w

🤣 so harsh its honestly just comical

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Anonymous #6 7w

Lol. I rarely use this word. But it’s pretty evident you’re an incel. You should prolly work on that tbh. I’m sure under the bitterness and idiocy there’s SOMETHING worth liking. Prolly should work on highlighting that trait.

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Anonymous #8 7w

Shit my match was in an ancient Sumer if thats the case.

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Anonymous #26 7w

I want to say that OP is actually a good person. Her check boxes are rare, but it is possible bc i personally check most of them except 2 big ones… Another thing I want to say to OP is that let’s say she finds the exact guy that checks 90-100% of her boxes… what’s to say that he will like her back and want to spend his life with her. It’s a scary thought, but it is very important to consider.

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Anonymous OP 7w

Girl, saying there’s a trait worth liking in that man is generous. He’s clearly butt hurt because he hasn’t gotten many girls in life and takes your comments as a VERY personal attack. Just shows the kind of boy he is. People like that don’t get very far in life and it’s pretty sad, but it won’t change till they learn everyone deserves respect 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #19 7w

Thanks :) yeah I know my boxes are oxymoronic but I swear if god made him and then he’s not into me I’ll be quite a sad girlie.

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Anonymous #34 7w

Hey. Someone hurt him. I’ll give him grace cause it’s clearly from a place of constant hurt. Doesn’t mean it’s ok. But still… I get it. I have lashed out at undeserving people in spite before.

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im a woman with a STEM degree, i love kids and want my own someday, i know how to cook and clean very well, I’ve never kissed anybody, and im saving myself until marriage. In your mind im one of those “high-quality women” you keep bringing up, but guess what? I agree with OP on everything she said. All your comments read like someone who got their feelings really hurt by a girl once and you chose to internalize that. Women and women like me wouldn’t touch guys like you with a ten foot pole.

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Anonymous #6 7w

are you… unironically posting something from something called “ChadManhood Restoring Masculinity” 😭😭😭 jesus christ I don’t think there’s any helping you

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