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Yes, I’m lonely. Yes, I’m single. Yes, I want a relationship. No, I won’t lower my standards to accommodate a low quality man just to get to a finish line faster. Some of these men live in Lala land thinking they have a shot living with that mentality.
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Anonymous 12h

It’s better to wait for what you know you need rather than to settle just to say you have *something*

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Anonymous 10h

As a man, I feel the same way. Won’t lower my standards and expectations for anything. You are totally within your rights to think that way too.

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Anonymous 11h

Oh all we’re looking for is love from someone else. A rush, a glance, a touch, a dance.

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Anonymous 9h

i can tell you from experience, it’s worth it and it will pay off. just don’t get sour and hardened to the world. — a man who is getting married to the love of his life who he waited so long for ❤️

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Anonymous 12h

Yess queen preach, don’t lower them for anyone

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Anonymous 9h

Same thought here, I’ve had a girl who I really liked who liked me back, then went back to her ex and had a kid, now that he inevitably left her she expected me to just forgive her and take her and her kid in. Yea no.

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Anonymous 11h

Ok

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Anonymous 9h

exactly this

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Anonymous 7h

As a man in the same situation, I agree. Don’t lower your standers that will only hurt you. Someone who deserves you and you deserve will come. Unfortunately it may take time but that’s not always a bad thing. Better to wait then to with someone that will only make you worse.

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Anonymous 11h

I’m just here

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Anonymous 9h

Good for you just remember that there are men world wide. Your match may not be local

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Anonymous 9h

purrrrrrr

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Anonymous 6h

Hear me out…. Just… Find the low quality man and see if his friends are high quality. I know plenty of men who keep both types around.

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Anonymous 6h

What do u look for in a guy OP? Genuine question, just curious

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Anonymous 6h

W ask

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Anonymous 9h

If you think this is being disgusting, that’s sad. You don’t just get to talk shit about women and think it’s okay.

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Anonymous 9h

Amen sister

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Anonymous 7h

Amen, sister.

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Anonymous 10h

You honestly just sound like low quality women one of those thinking that a men with a medical degree or business man is just gonna pick you wait until you realize the people who could of had BUT YOU FUCKED IT UP cause you wanted billy badass thinking he was the kindest guy ever but was the complete opposite

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10h

I am in the medical field and don’t need a man for his $. lol. I’m tired of grease ball, basement dwelling looking men thinking they have a shot 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Yeah figured thats the problem you just described it Pride doesn’t make you a high class women btw it just makes you bitch in scrubs like the stereotype

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10h

Oo. Someone’s salty he can’t get a girl then 😂 do you keep getting left swiped on?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10h

I mean you’re the one online calling random people bitches. Kettle, meet pot.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

Low quality woman just to want what she genuinely deserves in life? It’s okay, we can see you don’t have very good (or decent) standards. Don’t have to tell us. Enjoy settling. And “bitch in scrubs”? That just shows who you are by saying that

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9h

Happy for you bro. Best wishes!

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

No its what she sounds how she acts and it clearly shows

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9h

Romantic... ☺️ I hope I can find my person. I feel I’m running outta time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9h

To look in somebody’s eyes, to light up the skies. To open the world and send them reeling. A voice that says I’ll be here, and you’ll be alright

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9h

thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

you can and will. how old are you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

If she was worth a damn she wouldn’t be on yikyak complaining shes lonely to get a reaction to fulfill her need for gratitude that she clearly cant get from anyone around her

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

Hahah, you don’t know how I act. You sound bitter af tho. Your preconceived ideas are prolly entirely wrong. You’re the one acting like you have rod up your bum and are rejected daily.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

..I’m sorry, you know how she acts? Through an anonymous post? No. You’re just mad because she’s hating on low life men, and you take that so personal because you’re a man too. Not every man is the same, but it’s clear when someone gets so offended by someone calling out someone who did them wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

And you’re literally doing the same thing lol. If it didn’t hit a sensitive spot you would have scrolled past. Projection isn’t pretty :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

I think you just need to grow up and not fucking hate on people anonymously. If you have something shitty to say, message them or say it to their face. I doubt you’d say this to anyone if it weren’t anonymous.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

I feel like 13 and I are just mind reading at this point. lol. ❤️ you, stranger.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9h

Exactly. “Not being a single mom” counts as one of your standards. You shouldn’t have to take care of children that aren’t yours. Even though I believe that it is an extremely noble and courageous thing to do, I do acknowledge that not every man is comfortable with raising another man’s children.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

And u deserve more. ❤️ u too :) Men love being self conscious and ignorant I guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

Dats ok. Is what it is. We are all going through crap so I’ll chalk it up to that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

And that’s why ur a good person. Everyone goes thru their own shit. Some people get that, and other people wanna blame someone else for it. Keep that trait with you love

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

And women love thinking they can do want ever they want say what ever they use who ever they want and have the very literal meaning of double standard treat themselves as if there a 10 when there a 3 and go after 9 and act like they have a shot and then back each other but hate on men when they do it its fucking disgusting they just lack of self aware women have nowadays and act like its normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

Its a fucking epidemic

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

I’m sorry, you mean women have rights? Like yes we do 😭 Wtf ur not even making any sense right now sorry dude

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

We get it dude. You’re a 3 with a personality of a 1. I’m sorry the cards weren’t dealt in your favor. At least one of those numbers you can change.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

Guys I didn’t know this but we can think!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

And by that, please change ur personality dude. Not attractive. If u act the same in person as u do online, ouch

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

I can points go right though your head there is just no making you understand I’m done with this conversation have fun chasing men you never have and being a number to some doctor that will use you for overtime hours for there gain

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

Wild. I have expectations. That’s absolute nonsensical. I want a good dad for my kids. Good thing he won’t be the one calling girls bitches due to his own insecurities

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

Ive just had it with you’re insane ugly judgement and double standards as-well as all your alls disgusting since of being overly self important and the women of the generation before are tired off it too theres confidence and then theres being disgusting

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

your*

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

Oh don’t grammar check me its fucking yik yak

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

Healthcare workers know not to date healthcare workers. In fact it’s an entire meme: don’t date the 3 Ps: police, physicians and phyerfighters. 😂 I do expect a man to shower tho.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

Hahah. Think you meant that for #6, love 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

BYE dude ur the one losing ur mind over nothing. Shit talking someone you don’t even know

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

We’re just calling you out on being disrespecting AF

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

Yep. Definitely a single man who can’t get a girl and became bitter. You know, you can do things in your life to change that trajectory… right. You don’t have to be sad and miserable forever

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Oh! So calling out people who are low lives when they are (based on experience) is disrespectful, but calling a woman you don’t even know shit that is sooo disrespectful is okay? I love the double standard from you too love 🥰

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

I totally understand #6. I know the feelings you’re having very intimately. When I was younger I was so angry and hurt about how unfair everything was. I wanted to love and be loved so badly and that obsession made me so spiteful. I looked online for help and clarity but the internet has a way of blowing things out of proportion to make you angry. I wish I saw it sooner. Things get better bro you just have to focus on your goals and not bother with the negativity and the arguing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9h

I totally see where you’re coming from and 100% respect it. I just feel like there’s a difference between working those issues out and healing, rather than taking them out on random people online. It’s not okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9h

Yeah, and what he’s saying is very hurtful and generalizes too many people but I think rather than mocking and insulting him, guiding him towards a healthier point of view is the best approach. It worked for me. The one thing to understand is that the internet is designed to make you miserable and hateful by using your worst insecurities and your deepest desires against you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9h

I really agree with you. Men have had bad experiences with women. Women have had bad experiences with men. Women with women and men with men. Why is it so hard to understand that you can’t judge anyone based off the one or many experiences you had. Everyone is different. Just choose to be kind, it takes nothing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8h

It’s not even that she’s a single mom, that’s the kid of the guy you thought was better than me that you now want my help raising, no way lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

No people should help people rather than judge one another and take and use things from one another which women do they don’t care about you they care about what they can do for them its said and I’m tired of loosing friendships and being used by some fake girl that turns the complete opposite from who they presented themselves I’m so tired if hearing women complain about fucking everything all the time and drama bomb and fuck up friendship just cause theres nothing opposition happening

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8h

To fap to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 8h

Deflecting like you all always do how nice

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8h

I don’t know what to tell you maybe if you had better standards and judgment of character… like the very thing I was noting… you wouldn’t be so bitter. Sounds like you lowered your standards to let fake people into your life and you can’t see that the only way to change that is to change you.

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Anonymous 8h

The easiest and most consistent ways to fix that is to be in a committed relationship. So self control and ban you suddenly get what you want much easier. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6h

Drop the mic,,, I feel the same way

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 6h

lol. Well, then I’d feel bad. Like right swipe so I can use you for who you may know 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6h

Date the 3rd in power and watch the hierarchy collapse 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 6h

Listen I just got out of a relationship of 4 years where half of it I didn’t think I was attracted to him. Never again.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 6h

Bro that’s tuff… she maybe just wanted sex from him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6h

10 years ago my dad would have called my now husband a loser because he was one. Dead end job, no money, no drive… But now he’s met me, some choice friends and with our help he’s got a good career and is going to college for a history/english degree. He’s my diamond in the rough, just needed some polishing (self-esteem). It gets better, you may have already met him but never knew.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 6h

Oh I’m highly picky unfortunately. The things I find physically attractive in a person typically are the exact opposite of the personality I’m attracted to. But to sum it up. A socially competent techie (or really any nerdish career, and I feel like that’s pretty oxymoronic) that is into raving without drugs (also a rare find), plays video games with me and isn’t rough on the eyes (I prefer a metro male)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Omg no way, I went to a concert today Tame Impala in Charlotte and I don’t do drugs!!! Never have and never will and I’m also looking for someone who doesn’t!!! U literally just described me 🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 5h

I love concerts in general. I have ADHD and dance a lot!!! What’s even crazier is that I’m a tech guy. I coded my own startup, going to work on marketing when I get home tmr from Charlotte 😇

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

I also have never drunk alcohol, the reason I don’t do any type of brain altering this is because I like to stay healthy and altering my brain is not my definition of fun, but I don’t mind/judge others from doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

I think ur gunna like my eyes 🤭 is it ok if my eyelashes are long?

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 5h

This this kinda cute tbh. But you’re several hours away. Also what if you hate how I look 😂😂.

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Anonymous 5h

Haha no. I missed them when they came into town but I went to Vegas to see Illenium

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

True Love will find its way… where u from. I’m going back to FL tmr

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 5h

Ga. 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Vegas sounds funn. I’ve honestly never heard illenium, but thanks for putting me on. I wanna go to a Still Woozy concert so bad. How many have u been to

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 5h

I’ve been to about 50 shows since January

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Ye it’s like wraps. Coincidence after coincidence. Are u also in tech, or finance, or healthcare, or communications, or something? What did u study

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Woah u have me beat, that’s a lot. I’ve only been to 3 and plan to go more. I like music, I know how to play the guitar, really wanna learn the piano

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