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this might be a dumb question but how do i ask for a girls number in a non-flirty way as a guy? like if ur a girl what has a guy said/did before asking for ur info to make it clear they r not asking for it in that way
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Anonymous 3w

i’d love to chat with you about {whatever opportunities} in the future. can i have some of your contact info?

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Anonymous 3w

Well what’s the reason? Do enjoy the same things and just wanna be friends?

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 3w

more for like networking purposes?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Then say that

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 3w

i feel like saying “hey can i get ur number for networking purposes” is way weirder than j “can j get ur number” ??? but it’s always interpreted as flirty

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ask and be prepared for anything

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 3w

would u think it was weird if a guy specifically asked like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I personally don’t give out my phone number and I’m not looking for more friends. This is your situation. Taking out the factors in my situation, no I wouldn’t be weirded out.

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 3w

ok cool thanks!! you are v pretty btw !!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Thank you 🙏🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

ok this is fair i should go with contact info in the future

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