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I want a relationship so bad but I wonder if that’s because I want a bf or if I just want to be somebody’s first choice (when u think about it all ur friends have other friends and I don’t think any of my friends see me as their closest friend)
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Anonymous 1d

Random stranger you’re my first pick

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Anonymous 1d

I was having this exact thought today too, I’m sorry you feel this way. I hope it helps you to know I see you and I understand how you feel.

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Anonymous 23h

If you find the right person, you’ll be their partner but also best friend and always the person they pick first

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Anonymous 1d

woah you lowkey clocked me with this too

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Anonymous 19h

you don’t want to be a d-list guest. you want to be able to be considered and have intention towards you as you put towards them. it’s almost like steps you want to take, if you want your boyfriend to put you as an a-list guest, you’d hope your core friends do that already too. it’s really challenging when you’re in between seasons and you don’t feel like that with anyone. but that’s okay!! people are supposed to be integral in different seasons and ways

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Anonymous 21h

I guess I’m in the same situation… But I think for me it’s definitely that I’d like to have a girlfriend. I HAVE friends, but that’s just different.

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