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I need a mans perspective, my crush told a group he’s not looking for a gf then he says if anyone likes him to let him know and looks right at me like ??? why you want to know if you don’t want a gf anyway
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Anonymous 2w

i need you to run. just run

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Anonymous 2w

He already told you who he was and what he wants. LISTEN to what he has already stated. If you don’t want the same, move on. If you’re looking for the same, there ya go!!

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Anonymous 2w

He wants sex.

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Anonymous 2w

my thought was he knows you like him and that was his way of avoiding coming to you about that 1to1

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Anonymous 2w

Are you in middle school?

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Anonymous 2w

He’s not looking for a girl, but if one’s looking for him well then 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous 2w

1: he just wants to know cuz he’s either curious or would be down to see where yall dating goes - 2: he likes you, knows you like him, and just shut down all other people other than you

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Anonymous 2w

Can’t really tell anything from this interaction. Do you text or talk to him at all outside of a group setting, if not, you should start doing that to gauge if he does like you

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Anonymous 2w

he tryna hit it and leave

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Anonymous 2w

I’m sure he suspects you like him and he might like you also. Him saying he isn’t looking for a gf could just be his way of guarding himself in case his hunch is wrong. Worst thing worst you don’t confirm his suspicions but at least he isn’t in a situation where he makes a move on a friend and gets turned down. Long story short he likely is into you and thinks you are into him as well he just isn’t confident enough to make the first move and is hoping you will instead.

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Anonymous 2w

He may think you’re attractive enough for a HU buddy. Or just eye contact with ppl in a group?

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Anonymous 2w

he likes you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

love bomber

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

right

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

No he doesn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> mytranorisu 2w

2 seems like it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

My take is that he’s interested in but not like. Seriously. She’s and idle interest and not worth him pursuing

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 2w

Or he could just be looking for a friends with benefits situation. You’ll really never know until one of you actually makes a move. It’s pretty much a flip of a coin, but I like to give people the benefit of the doubt instead of looking at the negative what if’s.

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