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i need advice my girlfriend is in Spain right now where cheating is encouraged and she has been hit on by a few guys and they know that she has a BF but she was talking with one of the guys for 4 and a half hours last night, what do i say to her about it
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Anonymous 2w

"where cheating is encouraged"? lol bro what? if you don't trust your girlfriend that's 100% on you and her, it's nothing to do with Spain

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Anonymous 2w

“Where cheating is encouraged” ??? Regardless you should know the only reason white chicks study abroad in the eu is what you fear lmao

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Anonymous 2w

In an honest answer and not fighting with other people, I would say talk to her. Seriously. And if you suspect cheating, dump her. There is no reason to date someone you do not trust. And if you have no evidence, watch your levels of suspicion ans therefore happiness. When you are no longer happy, leave. If you have proof, leave. If you feel like she lies, leave. She could be making friends and enjoying her stay, but if you do not trust her, do not date her.

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Anonymous 2w

Let her have some fun.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

You right there’s nothing about beautiful sites and a rich cultural history that would make someone want to study abroad lol. It’s just for the men. Bc we don’t have those here I guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Average traveler just eats food and looks at the Instagram spots and leaves. Doesn’t have more than one convo longer than 30 mins with a local and is studying abroad as a vacation to date foreigners

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

For travel you see a place. For study abroad you absorb a place. Live there, speak there, make friends. En situ. Is different

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

It’s an extended vacation and 3 months isn’t enough to become ingrained with a culture simply put.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Never said that. Just said it’s way more than traveling

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Alright what’s your disagreement then? Meeting and hooking up with locals or the possibility of doing so is a top 3 motivation for studying abroad most people just don’t want to admit it or say it out loud lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I’m sure that’s the motivation for some people, but they can still do that at home. A cheater gonna cheat. I think humanity is more varied than you think it is, and assuming everyone has the same goal is shortsighted and reductive

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Thank you for the life changing words

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