Ask Anything on Sidechat | Can someone explain and help me out. Almost 21 in college and still a virgin. I genuinely don’t know what people talk abt with girls after saying they look good and the basics (name, major, from). Like some ppl are making out in 5 mins and then sex later!

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Ask Anything 2w

Can someone explain and help me out. Almost 21 in college and still a virgin. I genuinely don’t know what people talk abt with girls after saying they look good and the basics (name, major, from). Like some ppl are making out in 5 mins and then sex later!

Anonymous 2w

Stop approaching with a goal to hit, just talk to them like you would anyone else. If it happens it happens if it doesn’t it doesn’t. Either way you’ll meet some cool people you find attractive

Anonymous 2w

The people that have sex on the first date are wh0res with no self respect, so don’t feel bad. If I go on a date with a guy and he expects sex I leave immediately and never talk to him again

Anonymous 2w

To follow up i don’t understand how people get to the kissing and sex stage so fast and what they say to get there? As well as clubs, bars, and non going out environments

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Anonymous 2w

Bro has ZERO aura

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Anonymous 2w

Are you chopped

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Anonymous

OP 2w

They probably run through it quickly because they’ve already done it before. I honestly think it’s better to go in a steady pace. Talk about hobbies and what their day is usually like, that’s what would shape both of your futures

Anonymous

#3 2w

Thanks that makes a lot of sense but it seems so common at my campus

Anonymous

OP 2w

I know, I go to a private religious college and it’s very common here too. It’s common in this new day and age everywhere but it shouldn’t be :/

Anonymous

#5 2w

This!!!