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do girls actually see guys whove never had any sort of relationship or a kiss before as a red flag? been seening that everywhere
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Anonymous 6d

depends on why imo

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Anonymous 6d

It's definitely a red flag for me

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Anonymous 6d

IMO as a girl no, I feel like everyone has a given time. I think people that judge solely are the red flags. Like there could be circumstances for it like busy life, mental issues, school, time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

why? just wondering

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

I agree sometimes guys with no experience have no experience because they’re creepy but if it’s just like because you’ve nvr been with or interested in anyone then no i dont think it’s a red flag

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

how can you tell if you're being creepy? like i dont feel like i ever am but i have social anxiety and kinda awkward at times and idk if that can come off as creepy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

If they seem uncomfortable or like maybe avoiding u, u may not be creepy but they just may not find u attractive and thats okay u js try again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Also awkwardness does not come off as creepy there’s is a clear distinction in my opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

i basically never approach and flirt with someone because im scared of being creepy. i usually just try and have a normal conversation if i actually talk to her but it seems like sometimes they are uncomfortable. idk if its just my nervous energy having social anxiety or just cause im chopped. either way i think the dating game just isnt for me even tho i rlly want it to be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Ok well why haven't you? What happened to the point that this has never been explored? It's completely weird to me. Why haven't you had any interest to explore it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

You're sweet and all but no. You are someone that makes excuses for people. Where were you when the normal development of social skills was supposed to happen? How's that NOT a red flag to anybody?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

i am interested, im too scared to make any moves because i dont love myself and dont believe that i am worthy of love. i dont wanna embarrass myself by thinking something could happen. idk thats just how my brain thinks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

And that's where the red flags are. Too scared, I don't one myself, and I don't believe I'm worthy of love. Until you fix all that you're no good to anyone. And you missed some windows being scared to the point of NOW being in the sitch of DK what to do with a woman and you're grown

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

yeah i understand that. i have no idea how to fix it cuz i feel like i have no control over how i feel

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

That sounded crazy I feel like I have no control over how I feel

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

wdym?

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