Anonymous #2 11w

I'm sorry you got groomed but it's not too late to break up

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Anonymous #3 11w

We’ll see how long it lasts lmao, we started 2 weeks ago

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Anonymous #2 11w

It is what you both put into it with the intend of the expectations. There are plenty of examples of age gaps that work perfectly fine. And no you aren’t necessarily a Pedo just because of the age within the legal limits. Agreed though maturity holds a lot of weight.

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Anonymous #1 11w

literally! like you calling me mature does not make me your equal in maturity 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous #4 11w

no they most definitley

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Anonymous #5 11w

bruh

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Anonymous #10 11w

happy early birthday

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Anonymous #2 11w

Ew bruh

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Anonymous #5 11w

I’m single and a man if anyone’s looking to change that

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Anonymous #10 11w

bro got a happy birthday and shot his shot

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Anonymous #10 11w

Bro im done with yikyak yall aint real

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Anonymous #14 11w

Well that’s good

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Anonymous #3 11w

more like

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Anonymous #15 11w

he must be our modern shakespeare…

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Anonymous OP 11w

Right? 😮‍💨

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Anonymous #15 11w

Girl what the hell??

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Anonymous #17 11w

Some people r into that some women like older and some men even like older

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Anonymous #18 11w

Man at my first job my 30 yr old coworker (I was freshly 19) said I was ‘mature for my age’. Anyone who met me said I looked like I was 15….

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Anonymous #15 11w

I guess that’s better than saying “I want to fuck your illegal holes”

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Anonymous #2 11w

Baby you a victim😭

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Anonymous #20 11w

Dating my generation sucks not sorry

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Anonymous #3 11w

21 year old got groomed? Crazyyyyy

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Anonymous #5 11w

then it’s not fair of them to impose themselves on someone younger who could be having a normal, healthy relationship with someone their own age

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Anonymous #19 11w

It was indeed not hot… if it was Leon s. Kennedy then that’s different

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Anonymous #2 11w

Lmao there’s a reason why he’s dating someone 20 years younger than himself and not someone his own age💀 better get out while it’s early✌️

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Anonymous #4 11w

Nah even if it “works out” it’s still gross to start this early. A 20 year gap is fine if its a 30 and 50 yr old, but when it’s a 20 and 40 year old…

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Anonymous #14 11w

You'll see how weird it is when you're older/their age and realize 1. how immature you were, 2. How they were losers that couldn't date women their own age so they manipulated younger girls, and 3. Teenage boys won't be attractive to you at all, and you won't see anything in young people because you'll be mature and well adjusted and realize it's disgusting and wrong :)

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Anonymous #33 11w

I hate that younger women only want me for my dad bod so I stick with older

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Anonymous #34 11w

LMAO sounds like someone can’t compete in their own age category…

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Anonymous OP 11w

Again, mind your business.

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Anonymous OP 11w

You think younger is easier then older really lol

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Anonymous #34 11w

welcome to the internet!

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Anonymous #15 11w

That’s sick asf.

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Anonymous #35 11w

yeah a 68 year old confessed his love for me because he believed i was the reincarnation of his late wife…

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Anonymous OP 11w

Nasty asf and disturbing.

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Anonymous #15 11w

you need help bro🤣🤣

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Anonymous #31 11w

…

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Anonymous #31 11w

if you’re in college or an entry-level job, and he’s established in a career, you may want to consider the imbalance of power. if he’s not established in a career, you may want to consider what he’s been doing for the past 5 years to not be progressing with his peers and why people his own age don’t want to date him.

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Anonymous #14 11w

as a 30 y/o woman who was in a relationship with someone 26 when i was 19, you are not mature for your age; you are just easy to manipulate

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Anonymous #29 11w

so thankful i was raised with this mentality😭

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Anonymous #34 11w

18-25 year-olds do not have the same capacity to consent as people over 25, because the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for making decisions like consent, finishes developing at 25-30. that’s like saying “there are toddlers who truly ~want~ cookies for every meal.” you are the adult, and it’s up to you to tell them that is not healthy.

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Anonymous #29 11w

preach queen 👑

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Anonymous usernname 11w

hey click on this guy's profile lol

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Anonymous #3 11w

homeboy expanded his search to all of new england and still couldn’t get any 😬

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Anonymous #37 11w

Nice!!!! You caught yourself a cougar!

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Anonymous #37 11w

that person has had almost your entire lifetime beyond when their brain was done developing (which yours is not yet) to emotionally mature and accomplish their life goals. short of being in a coma for 20 years, pretty much every reason you WOULD be on equal ground is also a huge red flag.

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Anonymous #29 11w

my parents were 19 and 27 when I was born, and when I was 19 I got in a relationship with a 26 year old 🤢 I finally figured out that that is a gross age gap but it was a lesson I learned the hard way

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Anonymous #3 11w

That don’t mean they were groomed yall really gotta stop with some of this bullshit

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Anonymous #32 11w

That logic is stupid

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Anonymous #41 11w

grooming isn't exclusive to adults chasing minors

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Anonymous #21 11w

Holy shit just looked it up and yes, that’s 30 states where THE AGE OF CONSENT (not Romeo and Juliet laws) is at 16 😬🤢 I. Want. Off. This. Timeline.

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Anonymous #42 11w

And it’s not like it’s just the Deep South; from Indiana to Maine west to east every state except NY (where it’s 17) and Delaware (18) is also 16- that’s all of the Rust Belt and New England. Conversely, Tennessee, Kentucky, and Florida are three of the 13 states where the age is 18

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Anonymous #42 11w

its not how that works. its usually some loophole or somethj nd. a lot of places list it at 16 because theyll say “well 18 yo” yadda yadda. its more complicated than just a number.

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Anonymous #21 11w

i’m not googling the age of consent bc i don’t want anything remotely related to that in my search history, but i’m pretty sure in maine it’s only under 18 if the other person is also under 18. keep new england’s name out your mouth.

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Anonymous #29 11w

Per the Wikipedia page I searched on private mode so it wouldn’t go into my search history: “The age of consent in Maine is 16. Teenagers aged 14 and 15 may engage in sexual intercourse with partners who are less than 5 years older. § 254. Sexual abuse of minors 1. A person is guilty of sexual abuse of a minor if: A. The person engages in a sexual act with another person, not the actor's spouse, who is either 14 or 15 years of age and the actor is at least 5 years older than the other person.”

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Anonymous #21 11w

In other words…. The age of consent in all of New England is 16. Own it.

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You do realize that people don’t have to be fresh out of high school to go to college, right?

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Anonymous #22 10w

It's still a valid question to ask seeing as most 30-50 (crazy range btw) year olds wouldn't want to talk to 17-23 year olds

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He aint bothering you gng so genuinely why do you give a fuck there’s other communities on this app

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Anonymous #5 10w

When I looked it up it said age of consent and explicitly not a conditional law ruling. So the legal age of consent is 16 in those states and a lot of those have conditions where younger is allowed

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Anonymous #21 10w

It’s like that bc in normal situations most of these kids that be “dating” are in situations where they’re a year apart one of them is 16 and the other is 17. And while they’re dating in school the older one turns 18 technically an “adult” while the younger one is still 16 turning 17.

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Anonymous #41 10w

The law specifically sets those conditions aside though. it's 16 regardless of the other partner's age in any case

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Anonymous #41 10w

Shockingly, it’s actually that the age of consent is at 16 for these states and there are exceptions (like the Romeo and Juliet laws) that make it even younger. I know, I had to double check myself because I thought the exact same thing

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Anonymous #42 10w

yea in NC my friend made me check when we were in high school bc she was 16 dating a 23yr old and it would only have been illegal if he worked at our school. My mom has a friend who's kid ran off with a 40yr old when she was 14 and the cops wouldn't let her press charges unless the kid agreed to it.

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Anonymous #38 10w

40 and 14 is insane

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Anonymous #41 10w

It's not insane it's legally and morally indefensible

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Probably bc they’re in college and this is an app for college students.

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Since there’s 4 of you snow flake ass niggas downvoting my comment just bc I don’t agree with ur bs im going to post it again lol 😂 “He aint bothering you gng so genuinely why do you give a fuck there's other communities on this app”

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Anonymous #33 10w

Not everybody here is 17-23 tho. They just never announce it bc they get poked at. A lot of people don’t start their education till they’re older. Or they could be med or post-grad students that have been stuck in school for a decade. Either way, people want a way to connect to communities anonymously & this app is good for that. In a setting exclusive to adults, it’s just agism to essentially say “You’re old and weird and you don’t belong here.”

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Anonymous #22 10w

I know it's not everyone! It's the majority of people and the app generally targets younger people because they make up most college students. There are so many online forums and communities so it's somewhat curious to me that someone who may be 50 would wanna talk with/DM someone who may be a teenager. It's not inherently bad but it should raise questions because we know the nature of the internet and the fragility of teen/young adult safety online.

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Anonymous #22 10w

I never said anyone didn't belong here, genuinely just explained why some people including myself may be curious about a 30-50 year old's intentions and goals on an app with such young people. I'd ask the same thing if it were reversed. It's not ageism and it's not that serious.

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Anonymous #22 10w

Don’t respond with logic they don’t like that

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Just sit tight, sport. Your mommy’s on her way over from my apartment.

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