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literally how do people learn other languages i do not have the mental capacity for that why don’t they force us to learn other languages when we’re like 4 years old😭
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Anonymous 22h

As someone who’s picked up Spanish just from being in Mexico throughout the years, you gotta think about it differently, not as what’s this word in English/whatever. But as an entirely new word with its own meaning

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Anonymous 23h

like i would literally learn spanish, korean, italian, chinese, arabic that would be so cool

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Anonymous 22h

i really love to learn languages, i wish there was an easier/more effective way than Duolingo when you’re out of school but im currently learning german and portuguese!!! it’s a lot of fun

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Anonymous 22h

Once you reach a certain age it’s so much harder for your brain to learn a brand new language. That’s why kids that are abused and not exposed may never fully learn to speak (genie wiley for example)

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Anonymous 22h

Icl the younger you are the better you are at picking up stuff so yeah they should cram as many as possible as young as possible that’s how I literally learned English by being put in a fully English environment

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Anonymous 21h

You gotta be in it for the love of the game

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Anonymous 22h

Start watching media in that language and find native speakers to talk to. That’s how i learned Spanish,French and Italian.

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Anonymous 21h

Ngl I recommend learning asl because it really breaks down the English mind barrier esp because it’s such a physical and visual language rather than being verbal. Immersion also goes a long way, taking Spanish at temple was butt bc of how textbook based it was but when I’m with my friends/family that speak Spanish it’s a lot easier to comprehend because it’s social comprehension and stuff rather than being so rigid and textbook based.

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Anonymous 18h

It’s easier to pick up languages through tv, music, and real conversation with people.

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Anonymous 18h

Look up YouTube videos on immersion learning for your target language. That’s really the only effective way to learn and speak like a native. Flashcards and vocab building can help assist this but shouldn’t be the focus. It’s just learning how babies learn. It will genuinely take years though. Anyone who tells you that it’s possible to learn a language in a couple of months to a year is lying

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Anonymous 22h

I learned Spanish in high school. Start with the basic vocabulary and conversation starters. It will be more fun practicing talking about your weekend or what you like to do instead of watching and talking about a movie.

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Anonymous 21h

i did french, could converse slowly but normal day to day talk? couldn’t catch one word

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Anonymous 20h

Been studying French all thru high school, it’s been my second major for two years, and I’ve studied abroad in France. It takes a lot to be even close to fluent, which I’m still far from

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Anonymous 20h

Not sure how much this’ll help, but I learnt a good chunk of Khmer due to needing to live in Cambodia for a long time. Whilst it’s not perfect and I am no where near fluent, I can read decently and get a general understanding of conversations if they don’t speak fast.

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Anonymous 17h

I speak 5 lil bro

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Anonymous 15h

me learning swedish at 22 years old

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Anonymous 12h

I've been studying Japanese on and off on my own for the past few years I'm not good at it just yet but like, it's a whole system with it's own logic I'm sure whatever language(s) you wanna learn has YouTube and multiples communities of learners all doing their best and helping each other

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Anonymous 22h

Think in the language you are learning instead of in English

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Anonymous 21h

u gotta stop thinking w ur conditioned brain which translates everything in what u have been socialized, and instead return to ur innate consciousness and internalize understanding based on comprehension and assignment

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Anonymous 18h

I’ve only learned bits from working with Spanish people, 10x more in a year than I ever did in class and it’ll be basic shi 🤣

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Anonymous 17h

Partly because they're able to travel :/

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Anonymous 16h

Immersion is my goat. Really helps. YouTube language learning vids are amazing, but also Find a genre on yt you like (Minecraft, cooking, storytime) and find some child friendly YouTubers in your language

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Anonymous 15h

I’m currently trying to learn Spanish and relearn French🤪

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Anonymous 15h

You gotta find one that clicks with you- I hated Spanish with a passion but took one ASL class and fell in love with it

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Anonymous 21h

where did u guys go to school ?? i started learning french and spanish in school when i was in preschool i

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Anonymous 21h

Working with people who only speak Spanish helped me pick up the language, a lot of it is just immersing yourself and paying attention. Some formal learning is needed, but if you don’t immerse yourself it’s hard.

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Anonymous 21h

I do it so I can learn to understand ppl that don’t speach English . I’m currently trying learn Spanish so I can talk to my bfs grandparents

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Anonymous 20h

TRY ASL

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Anonymous 18h

Because our education system fails us, and most other countries, they learn other languages from a very young age. Now with that being said, I would get Duolingo it will help.

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Anonymous 15h

I think you answered ur question they have the mental capacity for it lol🤣

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Anonymous 20h

I learned German in elementary (I grew up near Amish country) but unfortunately forgot the most of it 😭

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Anonymous 6h

Immersion. Look into how Mormons prepare for mission. The CIA borrowed the technique from them because they are able to train up a kid to fluency in a couple of months.

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Anonymous 1h

i would recommend language immersion! i consume a lot of korean/spanish content (music, podcast, etc. when i finally started applying to learning it, it all fell into place

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Anonymous 22h

It’s not that hard man

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Anonymous 22h

There were plenty of options for your parents to have you learn another language when you were 4. What do you mean “why didn’t they force us” who is they? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

i tried spanish in middle school and was terrible at it. i tried arabic in college and was pretty bad at it. learning the alphabet is easy but the language itself was so hard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

i did ASL in highschool, it wasn’t terrible, it’s different from other languages because it’s kind of just…english…with pictures (signs) instead of words, but it was still really hard and i always wanted to cry in that class bc my teacher was so scary

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Pimsleur is good for pronunciation/spoken and hearing native speakers to help you understand what you hear and Babbel is good for vocabulary words and intro to sentence structures but no one app is the best it’s more about using them as supplementary and using various methods. I’d recommend searching for good YouTube videos/books and workbooks to practice your target language. Some languages have a lot more free resources to help learners than others. For example if you are learning Deutsch you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22h

can use DW learn for a BUNCH of completely free content to help you learn it. Each language has different resources but the most important thing is starting the foundation strong and understanding the “nuances” of each language like grammar, sentence structure, alphabet, rules and exceptions, etc so you can learn from scratch. Don’t view it as “this is really hard” or “I sound silly” etc instead give your grace and understand the reason kids learn so much is bc they do not feel that fear we get

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22h

their parents duh

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 22h

Sure pal

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22h

As adults of looking silly or being embarrassed because it’s so new to you. Find people at the same level as you and don’t listen to people who make you feel little because you don’t sound as good or know as much as they do. This is usually rooted in insecurity anyways so find your people who make you excited to practice. Mark it down each day your goal like it’s something you have to do like practice “x language” for 1 hour today. And schedule time to practice speaking with a friend at the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22h

level and look for online groups that are practicing at the same level. Watch videos in your target language and use your native language as subtitles. The more you immerse yourself in the language the more it soaks in your brain as natural and not just “something you have to do”. Have fun and best of luck! ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 22h

Makes your brain comfortable with switching over to that language and also frustrates you into learning it more cause if you don’t know the word for something then you don’t get to think it until you learn it at least that works for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 21h

i mean schools

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 21h

they don’t do that in american public school

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 21h

this is the thing i struggle with the most. i always go other language word ➡️ english word ➡️ meaning. its really hard for me to just skip the english word completely

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Chinese (mandarin) is suuuper hard to learn. I took a course over the summer (and am thinking abt taking it again). It was good during the time but I forgot abt it after the class. I’d recommend websites where you can talk to people who speak the language (you have to pay, but they are trained to help you). And DONT use Duolingo. Try practicing people who know the language as well! The woman at JJs Tea house speaks Mandarin and if you tell her you need help practicing she’ll help you after order

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

The more you talk to somone that speaks that language the better your knowledge

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 20h

Ngl all I remember is watching muzzy

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 19h

Added point: unless you practice all the time it’s very easy to dampen or lose the skill

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 19h

real, one of my majors is russian studies and i’ve been learning the language since 2019 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> egyptianwoman 19h

i have in highschool for 2 years

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

You just need a good teacher honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> egyptianwoman 19h

my teacher was a very scary lumberjack man who would get angry at certain things but not other things and it was always hard to tell which thing was going to make him mad bc he was very passionate about asl which is great but also we are like 15 we need to speak english sometimes to ask questions bc it’s a whole other language😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Try a class with dr ruetter. I’ve never had a learning experience like it. Truly the best classes you can take at una

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

also not "apple is manzana" but "🍏 manzana"

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Each of those except for Spanish and Italian will be hard because they are not Latin based

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I speak a decent amount of levantine arabic just by listening to music and having levantine friends. My first language is spanish and I learned english when I was a kid. It’s doable

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 17h

Ohhh I get it I get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #33 16h

Something to note btw, playing games with people who speak the language is quite good too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

im sorry ig im a private school snob 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Thisss! The only way to get fluent is to stop think in translations

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

asl is not like english with pictures instead of words that’s probably why it was so hard for you. it has a different grammatical structure entirely

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11h

Well they prolly didn’t force their kids bc they themselves only speak 1 language 😂

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