
Literally I had one profile who’s bio was “just ask” and then the three propts were “water” one of his 6 photos was a landscape pic, one was a pic of his car, one was a pic of his dog, one was a group photo, and 2 were a pic oh him but I remember it being dark. And while this is an extreme case, it’s like I don’t wanna see your middle fingers or you licking your teeth, or your ab selfie shot???
ig so but you could have everything filled out and still no matches. you're only one girl amongst thousands who may or may not have the same mindset. it says it helps u get more matches but ik dudes who have like 3 photos and get matches constantly so you're not wrong but not right either
But I also think that the quality girls who would care about intention are leaving dating apps because of the severe lack of intentionality from guys so they are giving up. So you have a ton of low quality interactions and it’s hard to discern. But, my thing is why would you post you flicking off the camera if you know that that is an ick for most girls?
quality dudes are leaving for similar reasons. their matches are probably scarce and whenever they do get one, it doesn't lead anywhere. as to why a pic of flipping off the cam is fire to them i could not tell you 🤷🏾♂️. i've seen my competition and i know my profile was 10x better but i got no matches