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Men, you do realize your dating profile is supposed to advertise your personality to girls… not your bros, right? All gals are different but there definitely ways to optimize your profile & how you interact with girls that would get you better results
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Anonymous 17h

u could do allat and still not get matches, dating apps are designed that way broski

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Anonymous 1d

It says what we like and don’t like. Then we leave it there, we are just simple like that.

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Anonymous 21h

Is this an ad?😂

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Anonymous 9h

Idk how to show personality through a bio my profile is more like a resume

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Anonymous 18h

I respect any loser fucking whores on those apps women only go for simps or dicks online

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

your profile says things? :o I haven't been on the apps in ages but the guys I saw on there typically just had their name, age, and a couple pictures.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Literally I had one profile who’s bio was “just ask” and then the three propts were “water” one of his 6 photos was a landscape pic, one was a pic of his car, one was a pic of his dog, one was a group photo, and 2 were a pic oh him but I remember it being dark. And while this is an extreme case, it’s like I don’t wanna see your middle fingers or you licking your teeth, or your ab selfie shot???

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

It will be when I finish developing my own dating app

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

Men over here with profiles better fit for bumble bff and trying to find a gym bro partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

I have left swiped on many cute guys just because their profile is incomplete. Those are all potential matches.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Maybe don’t swipe left then?😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

Incomplete profile = no intent = waste of my time.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

they gotta swipe on you too. many guys swipe and get no matches, i would know. it's also the same for women i've swiped left on many women who had incomplete profiles

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

I mean many are in my liked list lol. But I’m not gonna match an incomplete profile

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Maybe 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

another reason why dating apps are ass. girls get too many matches on there and can't tell which guy isn't a horny fuck and guys don't get any matches

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

I mean. Valid. I am very careful with my right swipes for that very reason so it does help when your profile is complete.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

ig so but you could have everything filled out and still no matches. you're only one girl amongst thousands who may or may not have the same mindset. it says it helps u get more matches but ik dudes who have like 3 photos and get matches constantly so you're not wrong but not right either

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

But I also think that the quality girls who would care about intention are leaving dating apps because of the severe lack of intentionality from guys so they are giving up. So you have a ton of low quality interactions and it’s hard to discern. But, my thing is why would you post you flicking off the camera if you know that that is an ick for most girls?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

quality dudes are leaving for similar reasons. their matches are probably scarce and whenever they do get one, it doesn't lead anywhere. as to why a pic of flipping off the cam is fire to them i could not tell you 🤷🏾‍♂️. i've seen my competition and i know my profile was 10x better but i got no matches

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