
You’re generalizing to the point of confusion. Yes both things are true but the missing piece is that guys will categorize girls (they deal with) into two baskets: girls they will never take seriously (but still date), and girls that have long term potential. Just like how girls have guys just as friends and guys they’re attracted to. A more precise generalization
What’s your point? I mean really. Whether the fetishization exists or not, y’all do what you want, because you’re well within your rights to do so. Nobody wins at the end of the day. We’re all literally and figuratively getting fucked, emotionally and physically. I don’t even understand the point of intimacy anymore.